If a woman doesn't change these three points, she should change them first.
If a woman doesn't change these three points, you won't be happy if you change a man. Today I want to talk about 3 mistakes that 90% of women make, and I hope everyone can take a serious look at them, especially the third point.
The first is to never let your love be too humble. You can love someone to the dust, but no one will love you in the dust. Many women crave to be loved, so she keeps giving to men, hoping that men can give her the same feedback. But you have something to expect from this kind of giving, so when a man doesn't give you back, you will suffer from gains and losses, and begin to doubt love.
But what the teacher wants to tell you is that women should love with momentum, I love you and I can pay for you, but if you are just blindly enjoying my good to you and not paying for me, then I will withdraw my love for you. You must tell him that your love is principled and has a cost, so that he will cherish you.
The second is that no matter how much you love him, you don't want to forgive without a bottom line, otherwise you will be hurt by a bottom line. People are infinitely tolerant of the people they love, and you can always forgive the other party for doing anything wrong. Even if some of them touch the principle, as soon as the other party shows weakness to you, you will relent. There are no rules, and the same is true in relationships. You have to directly state what problems you can make and what problems touch your principles and bottom line. If you commit it, you have to pay a big price. Your rules are in place, and you can restrain him.
The third point is not to love him more than yourself. Whatever you do, you don't put him first. In order for him to give everything he has willingly, you take him too seriously, and if he responds to you, you will be happy. If he is a little colder, you will suffer from gains and losses. All your joys, sorrows and sorrows are pinned on him, not only will there be a lot of pressure on yourself, but the state of performance will also be of low value. In his eyes, you are just an accessory to him.
Do you understand? I'm Aiden, follow me, let's talk about marriage issues.