In this fast-paced, high-pressure social life, each of us plays a different role and encounters a variety of situations.
There is a scene that I believe many people have encountered, that is, being forced to give money by beggars.
In this case, should you firmly refuse or give generously?
Here's a talk about what you should do when you meet a beggar who persists and asks you for money almost to the point of "coercion".
First of all, set the situation: you are walking home, in a good mood, and suddenly a beggar with a sad expression stands in front of you, looks at you with that kind of dramatic conflict, and begins his performance of asking for help.
His performance is almost comparable to that of an Oscar-winning actor, and you are almost moved to the point of pulling out your wallet.
However, upon closer inspection, you see that he is wearing sneakers, and this year's **. And so, the little theater of the heart began - to give or not to give?
First, let's analyze why beggars are given money.
One view is that money is given out of compassion and concern for those who are genuinely in need.
However, the reality is often not black and white, and begging sometimes becomes a profession.
So, when a beggar who doesn't seem to be short of money forces it to give money, the inner struggle begins.
There are several strategies we can adopt to solve this problem:
1.Learn to say no: Smile and politely say "Sorry, I didn't bring cash today." "Even if you have money in your pocket, it doesn't matter, after all, you're not an ATM and not everyone can come and withdraw it.
2.Ask what help is needed: Sometimes, giving material help can be more valuable than giving money directly. If the other person really needs help, such as being hungry or cold, you can consider buying a piece of food or a coat for the other person. This not only helps them, but also avoids the possibility of misuse of money.
3.Teach fishing skills: Okay, this metaphor is a bit exaggerated, but it means that if there is a real opportunity and willingness to help, you can guide them to some non-profit organizations or job search paths, which may be more helpful in the long run.
4.Humor: If the other person is too tough, you might as well use some humor to resolve the embarrassment. For example: "I'm very unlucky today, the money has been eaten by the cat, why don't you give me some?" Or act like you need help more than the other person, maybe you can dispel the other person's thoughts.
5.Respond tactfully: If the situation allows, you can also use some witty answers to make it impossible for the other person to continue. For example: "Oh, I'm from the future, we don't need money there." ”
Of course, having said that, we still have to be sympathetic when we encounter people who are begging, after all, everyone can go through difficult times.
However, discerning the truth from the false and ministering wisely can help those in need and protect oneself, killing two birds with one stone.
Everyone has different views and approaches to this issue, and my advice is for reference only.
However, no matter how you deal with it, stay kind, resourceful, and humorous, and every encounter in life will become a precious experience.
Imagine that you use full of positive energy and humor to resolve a potentially embarrassing scene, which not only makes the other party remember this "unconventional operation", but also makes your day more colorful.
Isn't that what we often call "worth it in the world", right?
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