Now people's lives are busy, some have no time to fall in love, some have no opportunity to fall in love, therefore, more and more people choose to end singleness with blind dates, especially when the Chinese New Year is approaching, single people are even busier, inevitably to go on a blind date several times, either on a blind date, or on the way to a blind date, not love is not good enough, but blind date is more cost-effective, compared to love, it takes a few months to determine the relationship, blind date only three times to determine the relationship between two people.
The first meeting, the blind date just started, the two people generally understand each other's situation when they meet, and by the way, they feel whether there is anything unacceptable about the relationship between the following two people, but the first meeting is usually very bland, everyone is very well-behaved, slightly shy and restrained.
The second meeting, have the experience of meeting for the first time, you can make a second invitation, if the other party is willing to come out, it means that his impression of you is okay, and the second meeting, the focus is to understand the other party's feelings and views on yourself, and then it is your feelings, look at the other party's attitude, if the other party seems silent, always thinking, then there is a high probability that there will be no drama, if the other party gives you a smile is very natural, no constraints, it means that there is no refusal to interact with you.
The third meeting, this meeting is very critical, through the first two meetings, there is a preliminary understanding, if you can make an appointment, it means that he has been able to accept being with you, at this time you need to show your attitude, and then look at the other party's reaction, if the other party does not refuse, then your fate will come.
Some people may think that the relationship is determined too quickly through three meetings, but the advantage of blind date is this, both people come with a clear purpose, through previous love experience, they can clearly understand their requirements, and their own conditions, if it feels suitable, then they can be together, if it is not suitable, he will also speak out generously, avoiding each other's consumption and misunderstanding.