Flirting with boys is not an act of manipulation or coercion, but a way to attract others by showing their charm and personality. Here are some tips to help you be more confident and engaging when interacting with guys:
1.*Self-confidence**: Self-confidence is a very attractive quality. Believe in your own worth and show your self-confidence, but avoid being too arrogant.
2.*Sincere**: Be sincere with each other and don't be pretentious. Be sincere in expressing your interests and feelings, and people can usually feel sincere.
3.*Sense of Humor**: Humor is a great social tool to ease tension and make the other person feel light-hearted.
4.*Common Interests**: Find common interests and topics, which can increase empathy and interaction between you.
5.*Body Language**: Use open and positive body language, such as smiles, eye contact, and appropriate physical contact (such as a friendly pat on the back or arm).
6.*Listening**: Really listening to the other person and showing interest in his topic will make him feel valued.
7.*Compliment**: Compliment the other person appropriately, but make sure the compliment is genuine and avoid excessive or insincere compliments.
8.*Mystery**: Maintain a certain sense of mystery and don't reveal too much information about yourself at the beginning to keep the other person curious.
9.*Independence**: Show your independence and let him know that you have your own life and interests, which will make you more attractive.
10.*Moderately provocative**: Appropriate teasing can add interest to the interaction, but make sure the other person is comfortable with it and avoid being too direct or offensive.
11.*Care**: Show compassion and kindness by giving care and support to the other person when they need it.
12.*Keep it mysterious**: Don't always reply to messages or answer right away**, a proper wait can increase your attractiveness.
Remember, everyone has their own preferences and boundaries, so respect their feelings and choices when trying to attract them. Most importantly, stay true to yourself, because true attraction comes from your personality and inner qualities.