At the dinner table for the Chinese New Year every year, "getting off the list" always seems to be an inevitable topic. There are more and more excellent independent women, but it is becoming more and more difficult to find the right partner.
We talked about this topic at a recent dinner with friends. Among them, there is a friend A, who has been a top student since he was a child, and now he has become a returnee doctor, and he is still working as a teacher at the university, but he is still single. I think I might be able to help her find a good boy.
So, I asked another friend, student B, who is the manager of a returnee community. However, he told me that most of the people he was looking for already had a partner, and those who were not in a hurry to get married were not on his radar.
This came as a bit of a surprise to me. Come to think of it, it seems that high-quality returnee boys can easily find a suitable partner, while excellent women seem to face a "choice difficulty".
If you dig deeper into the reasons for this, it may boil down to two words: "scarcity". The scarcity of high-quality men in the marriage market makes them a sought-after commodity, while good women, although numerous, are not scarce.
There may be many reasons for this phenomenon, and economic, cultural, and social development may all play a role. But in any case, solving the problem is a priority.
In my opinion, there are some methods that can be borrowed from "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People": first, start with the end in mind and set the main goal of getting rid of orders within a year; The second is to be proactive, take the initiative to expand the social circle, and increase your own ** degree; Finally, the first thing to do is to focus on the activities related to the removal of singles.
I believe that as long as you actively practice these three habits, the chances of successfully getting rid of the single will be greatly improved. I wish all single friends in 2024 can get their wish and find their happiness.
In today's social circles, the problem of getting rid of singles is becoming more and more complicated, but it is not unsolvable. For those of you who are in the predicament of being single, I would like to say that you should keep faith and courage, because happiness will not be far from you. Everyone deserves a beautiful love, as long as you open your heart and actively search, you will eventually find the person who has a heart with you.
First of all, we need to believe in our own charm and worth. Whether it's a good woman or an ordinary guy, everyone has their own unique brilliance. Learn to appreciate your own strengths and don't be overly demanding of perfection, because perfection is not what people strive for, authenticity and honesty are the most attractive qualities.
Secondly, we need to take the initiative and actively expand our social circle. Participate in various social activities, community gatherings, interest groups, etc., and communicate with different people to expand your network. At the same time, we should also keep an open mind and don't deliberately set limits, because love is sometimes hidden in places we don't expect.
Finally, we must believe in the arrangement of fate and believe that true love will come at the most opportune time. Don't feel anxious and lost because you are single, learn to enjoy your single life, enrich yourself, and enhance your charm and attractiveness. Only when we truly know how to love and respect ourselves can we attract a better other half.
Therefore, I would like to tell all my friends who are single, don't give up on the pursuit of love, and don't get depressed because you are single. Believe in yourself, believe in happiness, and persevere in your pursuit, and you will definitely find your own love. Come on, I hope all single friends can find their other half in 2024 and start a new chapter of happiness!