Subvert cognition!The mother-in-law persuaded her son, saying that the housework was done by a woman. The daughter-in-law angrily reprimanded: My parents take care of the child for half a year, and if you are distressed for a few days, your mother will be distressed, what about me and my parents?”
It turned out that the woman's hometown was in the Northeast, and she married far away. The husband's family conditions are not ideal, and he does not even have a marital house. Despite her parents' objections to her marrying so far, the woman married her husband despite her parents' objections!(Material**: Pepper Point**).
After the baby was born, the mother-in-law was indifferent to the woman and the child, believing that the woman should take care of the child by herself if she got married.
The woman could not cope with the burden of taking care of the child alone, so she had to turn to her parents for help. Although the parents were dissatisfied with their daughter, they still felt sorry for their daughter, so they rushed from their hometown to help take care of the children and do housework!
As the Chinese New Year approached, my parents packed up and prepared to return to their hometown. So, the woman asked her husband for assistance, but the mother-in-law felt distressed when she saw her son washing dishes and mopping the floor, and began to sow discord, persuading her son not to do these things anymore, saying that how can a big man do housework?
After the son followed his mother's advice, he got into an argument with the woman. The woman angrily rebuked, "Your mother is only an outsider to me, because she knows that you are her son, but she has never treated my parents. You've just started doing some housework, and she's sowed discord by ** and doesn't care about our lives at all!
Is she here to help or to make trouble?My parents lived with us for half a year, and all the hard work was done by my parents, but I didn't hear a word from your family that I felt sorry for my parents!
I know it's hard to take care of a baby under six months, but I've never seen your mother and father lend a hand. You have just started doing housework for a few days, and my parents have been gone for less than half a month, and your mother called ** and said that she feels sorry for you and doesn't want you to do so much housework, but in fact she feels sorry for you?
No, she thinks I haven't shared enough for you, and you follow her advice and blame me for not helping you do it. The baby is exclusively breastfed, and it is me who wakes up every night!Caring for the child at home with my mother for six months, also me!
Why is there such a big gap between my mother-in-law's family and my mother's family?After my parents understood that we couldn't afford to buy a house, they never mentioned to me that your family was bad, as long as you were good to me, it was enough, even if it was harder, it was okay to earn your own house.
Why don't my parents feel sorry for me renting a house?Why don't you worry that after I gave birth, my mother-in-law and father-in-law were indifferent, and even poured a basin of sewage on them, don't the two of them feel sorry for me?I know you don't feel very good about people, but I hope you have a little conscience about me and my family, my parents have always helped us!Continuing the husband was hit by the woman's words and fell silent. The woman's complaint has attracted widespread attention:
Some netizens said that the woman's parents cared about their daughter and came to help take care of the child in person. But the man's mother only expressed distress in ** and let her daughter-in-law take care of the housework herself, why is this difference so big?
Others lamented that the partner they chose before marriage may now understand why the other family's family can't afford to buy a house. Some parents who only quarrel but do not want to make progress can't pay before marriage, and they can't make efforts after marriage, and they only care about arguing and talking!
Others expressed their disgust at the bride price issue, accusing those who just want to take advantage but are unwilling to pay a penny, not only bullying the daughter-in-law, but even the entire daughter-in-law's family to suffer!
Someone gave advice to her mother-in-law, as a woman, why bother with a daughter-in-law who is also a woman?
Only by treating his daughter-in-law as his daughter can his son be truly happy!Is it really worth it to sow discord among your son's family, which will eventually lead to the breakdown of the family?Remember: family harmony makes all the difference!A sensible mother-in-law is always a strong backing for her daughter-in-law, not the culprit that causes family problems.