Are you still scratching your ears and cheeks because you don't understand the world and are criticized by the leadership? Are you still racking your brains about how to say the scene? Are you still at a loss for the fancy marriage urging of your neighbors? Friend, today I will teach you a trick - you can and should understand the "art of speaking", and say goodbye to all your troubles!
I believe everyone is familiar with the so-called "Wei Yimin effect", which was an absolute explosive joke back then. Now, let's talk about the art of speaking behind the "Wei Yimin effect".
Taking the "sincerity" that is both false and true as the starting point, making full use of the wisdom of "great wisdom and foolishness" in the mind, and using one after another "unexpected and reasonable" answers, so that the questioner has a feeling of "numbness in the scalp but impeccable", which is the ultimate logic of the "Wei Yimin effect". It seems absurd, but it shows the speaker's true feelings and sincerity everywhere, the so-called "road to simplicity", "courage and cowardice, wisdom and foolishness" is this truth. If you can draw inferences from one case and use them skillfully, these small scenes such as "on-the-spot speeches, wedding blessings, toasts" and so on, will naturally be caught.
When it comes to the famous scene of the bear children's childlike words, I believe that all parents who have children will not be unfamiliar, and the embarrassment and embarrassment of the painful death on the spot are always impressive and can not be forgotten for a long time.
So, why do the bear children always inadvertently say something amazing, provoking the parties to be sincerely afraid, and the people who eat melons laugh again and again? Is it open-mouthed, unintentional, or thoughtful and calculating? But then again, children, what bad thoughts can there be, it is nothing more than the word "happy". In the adult world, it always seems to be a luxury to talk about happiness, in order to succeed, we always blindly cater to others, and lack happiness, and even on some occasions, it can be said that "busy like a lost dog, anxious like a fish that slips through the net". The success of utilitarianism makes us anxious for quick success, lose ourselves, and consume in the whirlpool of involution and self-consumption all day long, and naturally we will not be happy. Learn the ability of "childlike speech", and let the art of speaking "regardless of the occasion, without logic, without thinking, and nonsense" take us back to happiness, a natural, true happiness from the inside out.
The so-called "pasta should be mixed with No. 42 concrete" is a typical case of serious nonsense. With a domineering look and a firm tone, let the illogical and worthless words be described by you as divine and real, so that the audience has a sense of self-doubt and self-denial, as if they are in a cloud.
Your performance, without order, logic, and reason, must be completed at a fluent pace, which is the essence of the art of speaking "a serious nonsense". Of course, if you're a speaker, the art of speaking is at best a self-deprecation, and you can't really put it into practice. In the adult world, everyone has many identities and plays many roles, but we still have to do what we need to do and play the role of the moment, we are always a mature person. Conversely, if you are an respondent, the question is still "Married?" Do you have a boyfriend? If you have such a boring question, then this kind of "serious nonsense" art of speaking will definitely come in handy and show your skills.
Getting back to the point, what is the art of speaking? Experienced people can always talk non-stop with relish - people should take care of face, when many people are present, they can't snub everyone by praising one person, causing a stalemate, and breaking up unhappily. For people who have a good face, like to brag, and like to be praised, you can cater to their preferences, which is the art of speaking. However, it is impossible to blindly welcome what they like, belittle themselves, and pursue the art of speaking. Only with a degree of relaxation can we achieve stability and long-term success.
There is such a kind of person, who will always put his position very low and very low, regardless of the occasion or irrelevant person, I look at the pros and cons, and find that this will despise himself more and more, and will be more and more looked down on by others. Therefore, we think that the so-called high and low position completely depends on the occasion, and it belongs to one's own position and occasion, and we must not be polite and modest.
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