Home is a warm haven for wandering souls. Home is a big tree, like an umbrella, sheltering from the summer sun. Home is the cool rain that whisks away the tired dust. Home is a stub of eternal concern and a treasure of happiness.
Home is the warmest word. No matter how difficult it is outside, it will heal when you get home. When I returned to my hometown at the end of the year, I was filled with emotion. When I return to my hometown, I always hear something new from my neighbors.
When I went home this time, I heard my mother talk about the neighbor's eldest son, who was in his 40s. He got divorced a few years ago. His life was not easy in those years. He rarely even returned to the village. This year he earned 200,000 yuan and bought a car. , bought a small house in the town and looks in good spirits.
That's the thing of life. Old people often say that life is unsatisfactory. When I was a child, my mother used to say: Your current age is the best age to be carefree! I used to think that adults were pretending to be serious, but now that I have grown up and started a family, I have found that what adults said is so reasonable!
Sometimes I feel sad. The same day is different for different people. Those families who live well basically have these characteristics, and their lives will become more and more prosperous.
1. The relationship between husband and wife is stable.
As the old saying goes: Husband and wife are concentric, and the strength breaks gold. If the husband and wife have a good relationship and a stable relationship, it can not only provide a good environment for the children to grow up, but also bring good luck to the family.
I have a relative in my hometown. The couple has been at odds for three or four years. In those years, the couple was not in the mood to go to work and make money, and the two children became more and more silent, especially the elderly at home. Second, I was young and always scared at home. Every time I go to a relative's house, I say: I don't want to go home. My parents were always arguing and I didn't want to go home.
The couple reconciled the year before last, and the two began to work hard for life again. Last year, they paid off their mortgage and bought a new car. If the husband and wife have a good relationship and a stable relationship, they will strive for the same goal, and life will get better and better.
2.Honor the elderly.
The ancients said: Instead of burning incense from afar, it is better to honor your parents. It means that when life is not going well, instead of going to the temple to burn incense, it is better to honor the elderly at home. The elderly are the treasures of the family, and respecting the elderly is to accumulate virtue for themselves.
I read an article before. Due to his busy schedule, the author was often unable to take care of his elderly mother. Once, his mother accidentally broke a bowl while eating. The author began to blame my mother: Why are you so careless? The mother was careful not to speak. After being silent for a while, my mother said: Look at Niuniu, what you do to me now, Niuniu will do to you in the future.
From then on, the author began to deliberately control his emotions and become more patient with his mother. Something magical happened, and the originally naughty Niu Niu began to become considerate.
Honoring the elderly is not only a virtue, but also an obligation as a child. Only by respecting the elderly can we accumulate blessings for our families, and the future will become better and better.
3.A family that talks well.
I used to watch the movie "A Thousand Arrows Through the Heart", and I always felt that it was not worth it for Li Baoli. Li Baoli was obviously in charge of the family's work, but in the end, she didn't even want to recognize her son. It's all because of Li Baoli. Mouth.
Li Baoli is a city girl, but she comes from an ordinary family. She married her husband Ma Xuewu. Although Ma Xuewu is a rural person, he is an intellectual and became a factory director. Li Baoli often looked down on Ma Xuewu and cursed Ma Xuewu. Later, her husband betrayed the family, and Li Baoli chose to report her abuse to the police.
Ma Xuewu learned that his wife had reported him and chose to commit suicide. Li Baoli raised his son, and all the dirty work was done. But when the son grew up and learned the cause of his father's death, he decided to break with Li Baoli.
If a family can't talk well, the relationship will become chaotic. Although it is said that quarrels are pleasant, and the more quarrels they get, the closer the family becomes, it is difficult for family relationships to become close if the words are always bitter and mean. Whether it is between husband and wife, or between parents and children, they should talk well, so that the family can get better and better.