Today was outrageously hit by a piece of news:
The nephew got a haircut in the first month, and his uncle died in a car accident that night, but he was angrily sued by his aunt and claimed 1 million.
My aunt thought it was my nephew who did it on purpose.
Although in the end, the court rejected the request and said: the car accident had nothing to do with haircuts.
But presumably this family relationship stinks.
I have to think about it, is such a childish and unreasonable appeal a foolish and unreasonable demand: the ignorance of human nature, or the greed of human nature?
Analyze the psychology of the characters,
Is it ignorance, or blackmail
First, to correct the customs that are becoming more and more outrageous.
The New Year's haircut is "thinking about the old", not "uncle".
Passed on and on, it turned out to be metaphysics?
In fact, the original intention was to express the way of missing relatives through haircuts.
It has nothing to do with "evil intentions, curses", etc.
However, the majority of rural people, especially those with low literacy, are convinced of the wrong narrative and demand that their children do the same.
Although people's thinking has progressed somewhat with the information age, most people still choose not to get a haircut in the New Year's Month with the idea of "believing what they have".
After all, more is better than less.
But if it's really a haircut on the New Year's Day, it's best not to publicize it.
Otherwise, it's best if nothing happens, and once something happens, you're likely to encounter something similar in the news, although it has nothing to do with youBut in the hearts of the parties and you, they are all in response.
In this incident, I believe that my aunt's psychology is diaphragm. And in the great pain of losing a loved one, so I want to vent my emotions.
These are human natures and are completely understandable.
But as a young person, it is impossible to really believe in metaphysics so much.
Therefore, I asked for 1 million with one mouthExactly the best: ugly human nature - greed.
When people are in extreme grief, can they still rationally think of solutions?
Most of the time no.
This aunt saw that the pillars of the family were gone, and she had lost her economy, so she immediately thought that she could use this to find a responsible person in an attempt to obtain compensation.
Take advantage of someone who has passed away and get the most value from him.
How greedy you are, how dare you think, and how much action you will have.
So this outrageous, but very reasonable behavior appeared: sue for a claim of 1 million.
It didn't turn out to be as she wanted.
But she has to bear the price of doing so
The moment he sued, he lost his nephew, a relative, and also ended up with an image of "vexatious, greedy and mean" in the hearts of his relatives.
There is no doubt that she lost the sympathy of her loved ones, as well as some gratuitous financial assistance.
Greedy human nature
The essence of human greed is: jealousy.
Jealousy creates extreme inequality in the heart.
I can't see that others are good, and I can't see that I am not as good as others.
That's why they covet other people's things and want to seek things that don't belong to them.
Such people in life,There is one obvious characteristic: lazy and mean.
They are too lazy to struggle, but they are delusional about pie in the sky and making a fortune out of thin air.
They are mean and cautious, unforgiving, and unreasonable. That's the purposeIn order to extract profits, they try to use unreasonable troubles to blackmail other people's money.
Therefore, when you meet someone with such characteristics around you, you must stay away from it, and you must not have deep friendships.
However, there are some superb relatives in every family, who can't get rid of because of blood, worldly vision, and the unbearable nature of being a family.
So what to do?
As I said earlier, the greedy are jealous of those who are better off than him.
Therefore, as long as you don't become their target, you won't be targeted and entangled.
A very effective way to do this is to hide your wealth.
No matter how well you live, you can't behave too well.
There are too few icing on the cake in these years, and most of them are people who take the opportunity to rub oil and fall into the well.
Everyone is on the same level and can get along with each other.
But if a person runs too fast, a family mixes too well, and everyone else around him is thrown away.
The gap naturally comes, and there is jealousy. Those who covet your wealth will smell it.
Only by hiding wealth can you not be remembered.
It is only in middle age that people realize this truth: the closer you are, the more you can't see you doing well.
Only by maintaining the same level of life can family relations be harmonious.
Anyway, as long as the inside is comfortable and you can live well behind closed doors at home, it is real.
Giving others a little leeway in terms of face and not comparing others too badly is also the most basic human sophistication and the foundation of keeping money.