Hate to marry is not humble, the bride responded to her mother-in-law's house rules reading
At all times, we must stick to our bottom line, and it is not too late to stop losses in time. Let us rise to every challenge with courage, because after today we will no longer be young.
insist on guarding her mother and accompanying her through the trough of life] Wang Qian lost her father when she was a child and depended on her mother for her life. After years of studying, she was finally able to start her life, but her mother fell ill at this time.
In order to be able to take better care of her mother, Wang Qian decided to insist on taking her with her after marriage. Although this made her road to marriage and love full of difficulties and challenges, she never gave up.
Now, at the age of 28, she is still firmly committed to this decision, determined to accompany her mother through the trough of life.
In the world of love, there will always be some special existences, and Xu Feng is one of them. He and Wang Qian met on a blind date, and in their first conversation, they were surprised to find out that they were college alumni.
Xu Feng was one year higher than Wang Qian, and they felt as if they hated seeing each other late. Wang Qian made her request to Xu Feng, and if he could accept it, they would continue to date; If it can't be accepted, then it's better for them to end the relationship sooner.
After Xu Feng knew Wang Qian's request, he agreed very much and praised Wang Qian for being kind-hearted and filial to her parents. So, they officially began their love journey.
After many years of love, they decided to enter the palace of marriage, but in the process of preparing for the wedding, they had some disagreements. Xu Feng's family bought a house in full, but the names on the real estate certificate are Xu Feng's parents.
Xu Feng's mother told Wang Qian that although the house would be lived in by the couple in the future, the renovation costs would need to be borne by Wang Qian's family. At the same time, the bride price cannot be paid because the family's savings have been spent on buying a new house.
If Wang Qian insisted on the bride price, they could only borrow money to pay it, but the debt needed Xu Feng to pay it back. Although Wang Qian did not expect the amount of bride price, the zero bride price made her unacceptable.
Therefore, she proposed that if she had to pay for the renovation, then her and Xu Feng's names should be written on the real estate certificate. In the end, Wang Qian's name was not on the real estate certificate, and she did not pay for the decoration, so she did not receive a bride price.
At the wedding of Xu Feng and Wang Qian, the prospective mother-in-law read out a set of "family rules", including that all housework should be undertaken by the bride, that the father-in-law and mother-in-law should be respected, that the husband should be the main thing in everything at home, and that the salary card should be handed over to the mother-in-law for management.
The bride Wang Qian was a little surprised to hear these regulations, while Xu Feng seemed to be used to it.
She firmly removed her wedding ring and picked up the microphone"As much as I desire marriage, I don't want to lose myself. This family rule deprived me of my life and financial freedom, and I didn't understand the meaning of such a marriage.
That being the case, I chose not to get married. "She left her wedding scene after saying that, she did not regret her decision, on the contrary, she firmly believed that this future mother-in-law would not treat her well, not to mention that her mother lived with her.
Her boyfriend Xu Feng did not protect her, otherwise there would not be such a scene of reading the family rules at the wedding. She just blamed herself for seeing the wrong person. Cake believes that both parties in marriage are equal, and should not be regarded as a transaction or a contest between two families, and that the relationship between husband and wife is based on mutual respect, and the mother-in-law should not interfere too much in her son's marriage.