He married her who was 15 years older than him, what is their biggest regret 20 years later?

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-19

Did he ever regret it?

Ruan Xun, an actor who has debuted for more than 30 years and has superb acting skills. He has been married for 20 years, and his wife Wu Qiong is a singer. The two are in love as before, but they have never had children.

When he was young, Ruan Xun, who gave up everything for love, now looking back on the year, has he ever regretted it?

The story starts with Ruan Xun's childhood.

He was the only child in the family, and his parents doted on him very much. As a child, he showed a love and talent for literature and art.

His parents saw it in their eyes and devoted their family resources to cultivating his talents. Soon, he made a name for himself with an astonishing talent, with outstanding hosting skills and acting talents.

At the age of 15, he became the host of a popular TV show. A year later, he debuted as the role of "Emperor Guangxu" and officially entered the showbiz.

In the following days, his career flourished, and his acting skills became more and more mature.

In 2002, a chance encounter changed his life.

It was a summer afternoon in 2002, and Ruan Xun and Wu Qiong, the "Queen of Huangmei Song", met unexpectedly on the old street of an ancient city in Zhejiang. The two got together for a shooting of an MV.

At the first sight of Wu Qiong, Ruan Xun was deeply attracted by her deep eyes and elegant temperament.

And Wu Qiong also left a good impression on Ruan Xun's handsome appearance and calm style.

Filmed on a dilapidated wooden bridge, Ruan Xun tentatively stepped onto the bridge deck: "I'll go up and take a walk first to see if it can hold up to us!" ”

Wu Qiong was amused by his words, thinking to herself why this young man was so funny.

That night, Wu Qiong couldn't pay Ruan Xun's salary, and she lost face. Unexpectedly, Ruan Xun didn't care about the remuneration, and Wu Qiong was impressed by him. Ruan Xun was also moved by Wu Qiong's humility and sincerity.

As the contact increases, the two secretly feel affection for each other. But thinking of the age gap, Wu Qiong didn't dare to confess, so she could only appreciate it silently.

Until one day, Ruan Xun mustered up the courage to send a confession text message to Wu Qiong. After Wu Qiong saw it, her heart was overjoyed.

The two began to date in a low-key manner. Once when she met an acquaintance while shopping, Wu Qiong nervously introduced Ruan Xun as her assistant. Ruan Xun couldn't hide his loss. Wu Qiong knew her mistake and opened her heart to get along with him day and night.

Ruan Xun used his sincerity to melt Wu Qiong's inner defense. Finally, at dusk in Beidaihe, Ruan Xun knelt down on one knee and put on a wedding ring for Wu Qiong.

Two years later, Wu Qiong ended a performance and mustered up the courage to call Ruan Xun: "Let's get married!" Received an ecstatic reply from Ruan Xun.

Ruan Xun first told his parents the good news, but he was greeted with opposition. But Ruan Xun insisted on choosing and faced the world's eyes side by side with Wu Qiong.

Love gives two lonely hearts a warm sense of belonging. They believe that as long as they support each other, they can overcome all difficulties.

In 2004, 27-year-old Ruan Xun and 42-year-old Wu Qiong tied the knot. At the wedding scene, the two faced netizens and discussed, their eyes were like torches, and they exchanged vows firmly.

After marriage, Wu Qiong conceived a child at the urging of her parents.

At that time, she was preparing a new play "The Lady Returns Home" for many years, and invested a lot of money and effort. For this dream, Wu Qiong worked hard and unfortunately suffered from a severe cold.

She couldn't bear to give up and chose to take antibiotics to turn the tide. After the success of the performance, Wu Qiong was overjoyed.

However, during the prenatal check-up, the doctor found that there was a problem with the baby and had to have a miscarriage.

Wu Qiong was grief-stricken and blamed her decision for hurting the child. But Ruan Xun didn't blame her, but gently comforted her, saying that there would definitely be their flesh and blood in the future.

But the results of the examination three years later made Wu Qiong desperate, because of age and miscarriage, she could no longer give birth to a new life.

Wu Qiong hated her original choice, and also felt that she owed Ruan Xun a child.

In 2010, Wu Qiong took the initiative to file for divorce, not wanting to drag Ruan Xun down. However, Ruan Xun once again chose to listen to his heart, refused to divorce, and insisted on going with Wu Qiong.

Time flies, Ruan Xun is 46 years old, and Wu Qiong is 61 years old. Despite the trek, she finally entered old age and had no chance to have children. The lack of flesh and blood affection is their biggest regret after 20 years.

But every time the sun sets, when the two elders walk hand in hand in the park, a satisfied smile appears on their faces. Because they have each other, they have the bits and pieces accumulated over the years.

Love doesn't need to be proven, it just needs to be felt and cherished. This is perhaps the best answer they ever get.

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