Reinvention is the only way to be reborn.
1.Get stronger! Fundamentally stronger.
It's not that you can lose weight, learn makeup, learn to dress up and look beautiful, or learn flower arrangement, cooking, etc.
It is a down-to-earth precipitation and hard work, relying on their own strength that cannot be easily replaced to achieve economic independence and financial freedom.
2.Only independent and self-confident can get out of the predicament.
I know that you are weak and overly emotional by nature, but this world is cruel to crying and clinging to others, you will never get happiness and security, only independence and self-confidence can get out of the predicament.
Moreover, both reason and courage can be cultivated and strengthened, and although the starting point is low, your efforts will not be disappointed.
3.Heavy feelings are not a disadvantage, but it is not worth it to be used in the right place.
Don't be sympathetic, don't forgive and give, even if it's sympathy for kittens and dogs, don't sympathize with people who treat you badly, he lied to you the first time you first entered the society and didn't know people, he lied to you twice, it's really you don't love yourself.
4.Don't pay too much attention to what others say and deny yourself.
Sometimes there are some problems in this world, you have to learn to distinguish between right and wrong, instead of everyone saying that girls should be obedient and inward.
But ask yourself your own heart, are you really willing to do that? If you don't want to, learn to say that you love yourself and do what you like.
As long as it does not violate the law and morality, what about being an enemy of the world?
5.There are some things that only boys can do.
You see a lot of men who are tough, brave, courageous, patterned, and charismatic, do you think they are born like this?
They are also young boys who have gradually grown into men who stand up to the sky.
Really important and beautiful qualities should not be treated differently because of gender, and you should be prepared to rise to the occasion.
6.Love is beautiful, but it doesn't make you lose yourself.
Humble love, one-way fool's giving, it is difficult to exchange for real happiness, kindness to the right person, to give to the right person, to give to the person who is worthy, full of your eyes, worthy of all your love, one day you will be someone's only planet in the universe.
7.Don't be fooled by yourself.
Many things you do according to your own set of methods, and they have been doing it for a long time without any improvement, so you have to think about whether you have been immersed in the wrong fantasy, and your direction and method may be wrong.
For example, he continues to look forward to the scumbag, he will get better one day and marry you, but a few years have passed, and he still keeps breaking your heart.
The biggest obstacle for many people is that they can't get out of their fantasies and can't deceive themselves.
8.Don't be naïve enough to think that beauty and ** can keep a man.
These can indeed attract the opposite sex at the beginning, and there are some lucky people who will be pampered for a lifetime, but don't think that you must be the exception, true love must be an evenly matched contest and win-win, you don't have to be too strong, but at least you have your own robes.