In modern society, with the improvement of the quality of life, people's pursuit of the spiritual level is also getting higher and higher. For many young people, "marriage" seems to have become an insurmountable "wall", those inside the wall want to escape, but those outside the wall are full of yearning.
In 2022, a fire gave people a new perspective on marriage. It was the image of a husband who sacrificed his life to save his wife in a fire and protected his wife tightly behind him, which deeply touched people's hearts.
In the early morning of March 13, 2022, in an ordinary residential building in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province, Chen Chaochan and Wang Xueyu were enjoying sweet dreams, preparing for a new day.
However, danger looms quietly, and Chen Chaochan is awakened by the thick smoke and realizes the seriousness of the matter. He immediately woke his wife, and the two of them panicked, the fire was fierce, and there was no way out.
Chen Chaochan did not hesitate, he decided to sacrifice his life to save his wife and use his body to build a firewall for his wife. This scene makes people see the deep love and dedication in marriage.
This fire has given people a new understanding of marriage, that is: marriage is not only a promise of love, but also a guardian in times of crisis.
In danger, Wang Xueyu was so frightened that she couldn't do anything, so she could only rely on her husband Chen Chaochan's side, and the two were at a loss. Chen Chaochan was a little calmer than her, and he quickly looked around and found that only the balcony of his home could escape.
He immediately put on a dress and fled with his wife to the balcony. Although the balcony is a few steps away from the usual walk, it is now difficult. The fire scorched their **, and they felt a hot pain, but Chen Chaochan gritted his teeth, held his wife tightly in his arms, and quickly retreated to the balcony.
When the window was opened, a cold wind howled in, and a puff of smoke rose out of the window, which soon attracted the attention of the surrounding residents. Chen Chaochan heard the sounds of encouragement and comfort coming from upstairs and downstairs, and the tension in his heart calmed down a little.
He looked around and caught a glimpse of himself and his wife behind him. She was held tightly in his arms, her clothes intact, though the burns were slightly lighter than his.
It will take some time for the firefighters to rescue, and the fire in the house is getting stronger and stronger, and the poisonous smoke is billowing in, but I am afraid that before the firefighters arrive, they will be burned alive or smoked to death.
At such a critical juncture, Chen Chao was in a hurry and decided to take refuge outside the balcony and wait for rescue. Their balcony has a small fixed edge on the outside of the balcony, which allows you to stand temporarily as long as it is attached to the window. "
Quick, I'll carry you out on the balcony. "Without hesitation, Chen Chaochan hugged his wife tightly and took her outside the balcony to avoid being burned. Wang Xueyu naturally didn't want to escape alone, she wanted her husband to roll out of the balcony together.
Despite the narrow edge of the balcony, it barely holds two people. "I'm here to support you, don't worry. "Chen Chaochan did not move, he was worried that his wife had burns on her feet and would fall downstairs if she was unsteady on her feet.
Therefore, no matter how Wang Xueyu persuaded him, he resolutely supported his wife and did not move.
The flames were raging, mercilessly scorching Chen's back and body, but he resolutely persevered and gave up the chance of survival to his wife. "Don't cry, the two of us have to live one of them. ”
Chen Chaochan said firmly. Tears blurred Wang Xueyu's vision, and she could clearly see the burns on her husband's body, almost to the bone. I can only pray in my heart that the firefighters will come soon, and soon.
The firefighters were fast, but for the couple, every second felt like they were staying up. When the fire was finally extinguished, the firefighters rushed to the balcony and saw the husband and wife standing hand in hand, one mile away.
Seeing the firefighters, Wang Xueyu burst into tears with excitement and shouted hoarsely: "Save my husband first, save my husband first!" ”。The firefighters at the scene were deeply moved by the life and death of the two and their inseparable feelings.
At the moment of life and death, one sacrificed himself to save his wife and protected his wife with flesh and blood. The other took the initiative to give up the opportunity for treatment to her husband regardless of herself. After this ** spread, netizens were all moved by the couple's shared weal and woe and sincere emotions.
When danger comes, will you abandon me and survive alone? Of course not, I will follow you and face it with you. I'd rather risk saving you if I could! Perhaps it is precisely because we still believe in this affectionate mutual love and dedication that we are full of expectations for love and yearn for marriage.
The story of Chen Chao's wife deeply touched netizens, and they were full of concern about their follow-up. I only hope that fate will favor this loving couple and let them successfully get through this difficult time.
Chen Chaochan and Wang Xueyu were sent to the operating room together, and their burns were very serious, 98% of the tissues in Chen Chaochan's body had been burned, and Wang Xueyu's condition was also not optimistic.
Chen Chaochan and Wang Xueyu were severely burned in an accident and were in critical condition. This was undoubtedly a disaster for the average peasant family, and the high cost of surgery put the family in a difficult situation.
Chen Chaochan's father was a simple farmer, and in the face of his son's and daughter-in-law's illness, his face was a little more wrinkled and bitter, but he said firmly: "No matter what, we have to save them." ”
When the news reached their hometown of Chenlao Village, Anhui Province, the entire village was shaken. When Chen Qinji, deputy secretary of the village party committee, heard the news, he immediately rode to Chen's home, informed them, and decided to help them raise the cost of the operation.
Chen Qinji is a kind and enthusiastic person, during the epidemic last year, he was on duty at the epidemic prevention and control point, and Chen Chaosheng and his wife brought him water and food, which moved him a lot. Chen Chaochan's family encountered difficulties, Chen Qinji felt that the villagers should do their part to help them, so he organized and called on everyone to donate, and the villagers responded positively, you 100 and I 200, a total of more than 100,000 yuan.
People from all walks of life also learned about the plight of Mr. and Mrs. Chen, and they spontaneously made donations, and their surgery fees were temporarily resolved. Now, although Chen Chaosheng is seriously injured, he has been gesturing to say that he must save his wife Wang Xueyu.
The Chen family was extremely sad to see him remember his wife like this.
Although Chen Chaosheng's father knew what his son meant, there were still three children to raise at home, and if he couldn't survive, the children could still rely on their mother. But he seems to have forgotten that his parents will also grow old, and how painful it must be for a white-haired person to send a black-haired person.
In the operating room, the fate of Chen Chaosheng and his wife is uncertain, and outside the operating room, several anxious hearts are waiting. Everyone hoped that fate would favor the poor couple and not let their once warm home be shattered.
However, misfortune struck. On the evening of March 21, the bad news came, and the doctor informed them that Chen Chao's operation had failed, and asked them to discuss it and send a representative of the family to visit him.
The family felt like a lightning strike, and in the end, it was Chen Chao's brother who entered the operating room. As soon as he entered, he was very sad to see his brother, who was previously healthy, burned all over his body, but he held back his tears and wanted to say a few words to his brother.
Chen Chaochan was still in a coma, his eyes closed, his brows furrowed, and his expression full of unease. In his subconscious, he was still worried about his wife in the operating room.
Studies have shown that before people are on the verge of death, they will recall everything they had in their lives. For Chen Chaosan, most of what comes to his mind are the bits and pieces he spent with his wife.
In the past ten years, they have hardly had a quarrel, and although they are not rich, they are very satisfied. Their three children are very obedient and sensible, with them, Chen Chao has a deeper understanding of the family, and he is more determined to work hard to make money and give his family a better life.
Two years ago, he brought his wife to Nanjing to work, they were engaged in scrap ** and restaurant service work respectively, and all the money he earned every month was sent home in addition to paying for their living expenses.
Chen Chaochan has always felt guilty in his heart, and he thinks that he has not brought a better life to his wife. However, Wang Xueyu doesn't see it that way, she always comforts him, understands him, and tells him that everything will get better.
The wife loves Douyin, and she will record the ordinary but warm fragments of their lives. Every time Wang Xueyu asked Chen Chaochan to appear on the scene, although he was a little embarrassed, he would actively cooperate, which was the most subtle way for him to express his love to his wife.
Wang Xueyu is more direct, she will unreservedly share the **and** of the two on social platforms. Chen Chaochan is not good at words, but every time he receives a "confession" from his wife, he feels extremely moved and satisfied in his heart.
Because he knew that this was his wife, the mother of his children, the person with whom he was going to spend his life hand in hand. He is determined to love her well, protect her, and support her with a sheltered home.
However, fate played a joke on them. In the early morning of March 22, Chen's vital signs gradually disappeared, his breathing slowly stopped, and finally he left this world silently.
What my brother wants to protect, we will continue to protect. Our greatest wish now is to get our siblings back. At least in the future, the children will still have someone to say to their 'mother' when they come home. ”
Chen Chaochan's family was immersed in endless grief, and they knew that Chen Chaochan had a deep love for Wang Xueyu, so they pinned all their hopes on Wang Xueyu.
They prayed, hoping only that Chen Chaochan's wife, who had done everything he could to protect, would be able to survive this dangerous moment. Fortunately, Wang Xueyu's first operation was very successful, which made the Chen family feel a little comfort in their extreme grief.
In order to support Wang Xueyu's follow-up surgery and **, the Chen family's fundraising work continues. On March 22, Wang Xueyu underwent a second operation, and although she was not yet able to speak, she had regained some consciousness.
However, all the family members were careful not to tell her about the birth of her beloved husband, Chen Chao. However, something unfortunate happened. On March 29, seven days after Chen's death, Wang Xueyu's condition suddenly deteriorated and she did not survive.
This undoubtedly made the Chen family even more heartbroken, and their hopes were shattered, leaving only endless grief and loss.
During the Song and Jin dynasties, Yuan Haowen met a hunter on the way to Bingzhou, who grabbed a wild goose in his hand and killed it. Dayan's partner had already escaped, but when he saw his partner die, he also threw himself to the ground.
Yuan Haowen was moved by the infatuation of the wild geese, so he bought two geese and buried them, which is famous"Yanqiu"。This story also left us behind"Ask what the world is like, and teach people to live and die"This is a famous sentence for the ages.
I think that Chen Chaochan and Wang Xueyu are just like those two geese"Stratus clouds, thousands of mountains and twilight snow, to whom does the shadow go? "When Chen Chaochan died, Wang Xueyu was like a lonely wild goose, even in the face of stratus clouds and thousands of mountains and twilight snow, he couldn't find a lover to accompany him.
The promise of love often comes with life and death. Wang Xueyu was unwilling to let her husband be lonely and bear the thoughts of the rest of her life, so she chose to follow her lover. Although their hearts are painful, everyone is mourning in silence, hoping that they will no longer have pain in heaven and be a loving couple in the next life.
They are just one of the many lovers who are willing to live and die, and their stories let us see the beauty of love. On December 15, 2021, in Xianren Lake, Hezeshan County, Shandong, Mr. Wang was fishing when he suddenly saw a runaway car rushing straight into the lake.
At this critical juncture, some people chose to call the police, and some people chose to save people. The water of the lake is unfathomable, and the car quickly sinks into the deep water after falling into it, and the roof of the car is about to be submerged by the lake.
However, there was a group of enthusiastic people who, regardless of their personal safety, resolutely jumped into the water and worked together to pry the windows of the car and free the car from the water.
Unexpectedly, the rescued man shouted, "Save my girlfriend first." As he spoke, he pushed his girlfriend to the shore, and with the joint efforts of him and other enthusiastic people, his girlfriend was successfully rescued.
However, due to physical exhaustion and heavy clothing, the man could not swim back to the shore on his own, so he could only swim back to the shore slowly under the support of many rescuers.
After the couple got through the difficult time, they were grateful, and the two hugged each other tightly as if they were in the aftermath of a catastrophe. There are countless such stories, so we should not blindly blame love and belittle marriage.
Instead, we should learn from it how to manage and maintain a relationship or marriage. Although everyone longs for a good love and a happy marriage, with the change of times and the change of concepts, people's attitudes towards love and marriage are also changing, which makes many young people begin to wonder whether marriage is still necessary.
As a result, "I believe in love, but I don't believe that love will come to me" has become the voice of some young people. Are we really not looking forward to marriage? Of course not, we just went from being a participant to a spectator, watching someone else's love story every day, hoping to draw courage from their love and marriage.
We were deeply moved by the story of Chen Chaochan and Wang Xueyu, but the management of marriage is not simple, and there is a lot to learn. Love is an indispensable ingredient in a healthy marriage.
Today, with the rapid development of social economy, the burden on the shoulders of young people is getting heavier and heavier. Many people don't have the time, energy, and interest to have a serious relationship.
However, when they reach the age of marriage, they have to face this important life choice. In the end, most people will choose to compromise and find someone who is relatively compatible in all aspects, but this does not mean that they really have love.
You must know that marriage is not only a part of life, but also needs the nourishment of love. Therefore, no matter what the circumstances, we must persist in the pursuit of love, because a marriage without love cannot last.
Marriage, which seems to be the grave of love, is actually an extension of love. A happy marriage must be supported by a solid foundation of love. Once love fades away in marriage, problems such as communication difficulties and disagreements will ensue, allowing conflicts to gradually accumulate.
Of course, there are also some marriages that have no love, and are more about loving because of marriage, or even love after marriage. But this requires both parties to take responsibility for each other, and even if there is no love, they are willing to share the responsibilities of life and work for each other.
Only by relying on each other and supporting each other can we support each other in trivial lives, so as to cultivate a relationship that can spend a lifetime together. If both spouses are neither in love nor willing to take responsibility, then married life may become quarrelsome, lifeless and lacking in vitality and vitality.
In the long run, marriage will become a pool of stagnant water, and people will lose their expectations. In addition, while both husband and wife are dependent, they must also learn to be independent and maintain themselves, so as to make their married life more healthy and satisfying.
As individuals, we first need to find ourselves in order to find our place in marriage. Psychologists have pointed out that both parties in a marriage need to maintain relative independence and their own lifestyle, only in this way can they maintain balance in the trivial matters of reality, and the road of affection can be longer.
Both men and women need to have their own careers before and after marriage, and family is the responsibility of two people, not the whole responsibility of one party. Just like Chen Chaochan and Wang Xueyu, although their work is very basic, they create more income for the family through their own efforts, and the husband and wife working together can not only increase the sense of participation and identity, but also enhance mutual understanding and consideration.
Financial independence and self-preservation are spiritual independence in marriage and a manifestation of love for oneself. Don't make love all you have, but make love a part of your life.
Don't lose yourself in love, don't become a "love brain". In marriage, you need to have your own subjective consciousness, have your own emotional expression, and have your own values.
In this way, you can find balance in love and find happiness. So, believe in yourself, believe in love, and be bold in love! Although there is a phenomenon of "fear of love" and "fear of marriage" in society, we must not be afraid of love and dare not pursue happiness because of this.
Because, the love stories around us tell us that true love is all around us.
The marriage of Mr. and Mrs. Chen Chaosan is full of trust and love, and they face the difficulties of life together together, sharing life and death. Their love story deeply grieved us, but at the same time it was full of admiration.
Their love, although ordinary, is incomparably great, setting an example of a healthy and beautiful marriage for our society. For their three children, ** and society have also given the utmost care and attention, ensuring that they can receive a monthly subsidy of 1,050 yuan and other financial assistance before they reach adulthood.
Although Mr. and Mrs. Chen have left us, those of us who are alive should cherish life even more, because life is still going on and we cannot give up easily.
In our short lives, let us have less fear and calculation, and more courage and sincerity. Perhaps we can still look forward to a deeply loving love and a lifetime of inseparable marriage together.
The spring breeze is warm and the breeze is light, so it is better to wait quietly for an encounter.