I saw a netizen say: "My colleague and his wife are both auxiliary police officers and have two children. Due to the nature of their work, both of them are busy, but fortunately there are parents to help take care of the children.
They are grateful for their parents' efforts, but their parents are farmers and have no pension. His daughter-in-law has 2,700 yuan per month and himself 2,834 yuan per month, a total of 5,500 yuan, which cannot meet the growing family expenses at all. ”
The husband and wife are both public officials, and in the eyes of outsiders, they may be glamorous and enviable, but only they know the difficulty behind them. Colleagues want to invite them to a dinner party, and they may all be thoughtful and sad to think about because they are shy. During the Chinese New Year, the duty schedule of the auxiliary police husband and wife must also be full, and during the Spring Festival of family reunion, will the children who stay at home alone reveal their thoughts in their eyes? Nowadays, many young people are reluctant to have children, and they feel that it is not easy to take care of themselves. However, they have a total salary of more than 5,000 yuan, and the child's milk powder money has spent 1,500 yuan, which makes them suffer and cannot suffer the child.
If the first child is born because of marriage, then the second child is most likely because of the love between husband and wife.
Even under such difficult conditions, they still laugh at life: "At such an expense, they can only drink the northwest wind."
Although those jokes are sad, you can still feel their ordinary happiness from the details.
Just like half a glass of water, some people will regret that they only have half a glass, and some people will be glad that there is still half a glass.
Faced with the current situation of almost no savings, where does the happiness of marriage come from?
Xiao Tang, I watched some interviews with other auxiliary police couples and found that the happiness stems from their common dreams.
They firmly believe that through their own efforts, they can break through difficulties and chase a better life. Their dedication is not only reflected in their love for work, but also in their common family dreams and yearning for the future. In their work, they take root at the grassroots level with ordinary posts and silently dedicate themselves to the cause of public security; In the family, they support each other and move forward together. The same profession, the same situation, and the same pursuit allow the auxiliary police husband and wife to understand each other better, let the small family integrate into everyone, and encourage each other not to forget their original intentions. Before dawn comes, there is always a dark time. Xiao Tang believes that they will also be able to keep the clouds open and see the moon. Combined with the expenses of the auxiliary police husband and wife, Xiao Tang collected some small suggestions, hoping to help them.
1.The cost of milk powder: The cost of milk powder of 1,500 yuan per month is the bulk of the expenditure. You can consider buying multiple cans at one time, participating in a certain 10 billion subsidy, and a certain East New Year's Festival, which can reduce costs.
2.Looking for extra income**: Couples can consider using a skill to supplement their income by working part-time in their free time. If the auxiliary police are on duty and busy with work, you can consider asking your parents to do some small business, such as always cooking at noon, making a few more boxed lunches, and selling them to those in need in the community.
3.Enhance personal ability: Actively participate in internal training and examinations in the public security system to improve professional skills and lay the foundation for promotion. Through further study and training, they will improve their academic qualifications and professional qualifications and enhance their competitiveness in the public security system. People with high academic qualifications will always have more opportunities than those with low academic qualifications, don't miss every public *** Don't miss every opportunity to be admitted to the establishment. When Xiao Tang was watching the news during the New Year, he saw a report that said: On the first day of the Lunar New Year, the children who stayed at home alone sent dumplings to the parents of the auxiliary police on duty. Yes, in the eyes of the children, the parents' unique "couple outfit" is simply handsome.