In the process of nurturing the next generation, we must be vigilant so as not to fall into a wrong education model. Because, wrong guidance will not only make us regret our mistakes, but also make it difficult for children to move on the road of life.
On January 30, 2024, Tang Nuannuan66 put forward this warning: When educating children, they must not be instilled alone. Otherwise, the kids could be in trouble.
Zhao Ran once said that the children who struggle the most in life are often those who are full of benevolence, righteousness and morality, but they don't know anything about the real world. Although they are virtuous, they live in poverty.
Such children, lacking a true understanding of the laws of survival, often run into walls in their pursuit of love, friendship, wealth, and career. They are accustomed to giving in and do not know how to fight, and the result can only be to put themselves in a deeper predicament.
This may sound harsh, but it's a reality we have to face. If a family is unable to provide the necessary material support for their children, then when educating children, it is not enough to emphasize politeness and etiquette. Otherwise, the child may suffer a lot as he grows up.
Children who have received this kind of education for a long time tend to have the following characteristics:
1. Too low-key. They are afraid to show themselves in front of others and are always obscure, which makes them dispensable in the crowd, which is detrimental to their work and life.
2. Lack of assertiveness. They are often unable to make decisions at critical moments and are always hesitant, which makes it difficult for them to be taken seriously in their work.
3. Not good at interacting with people. They are too reserved and don't know how to get along with the opposite sex, which makes them hit a wall in their interpersonal interactions.
Therefore, when we educate our children, we should not only teach them politeness and benevolence, but also let them learn to be flexible and know how to navigate life with ease. Too many rules and regulations will only limit a child's development and affect their ability to survive.
May our children find their place in life and live a truly healthy and happy life.