Poor have poor roots; Rich and rich.
When we complain about the poverty of our families, we should think about which link has gone wrong and whether we should change the way of survival.
The wealth and poverty of the family are all cause and effect, and parents should bear a large part of the responsibility.
Educator Makarenko said: "People who are raised without the love of their parents are often flawed people. ”The pattern of parents is too important for the growth of children. It's just that some parents don't realize their narrow-mindedness, and they still point fingers at their children's lives, resulting in their children continuing the "poverty" of their parents.
The following two kinds of work, parents of poor families, are very favored and need to be reflected.
The first type: quick money, no wisdom content of work.
The reason why people are poor in the first place is "no money". Therefore, many poor people will arrange for their children, starting from their teens, to earn money, and to "achieve quick results".
Some parents have always instilled in their children such a concept - why do you read so many books? Go to work early.
Jobs where you can go to work in the morning and get paid in the afternoon are very popular with the poor. After all, it is possible to solve the cost of living tomorrow immediately.
The most terrifying thing is that some parents let their children go to work and wait for their children to buy rice and go home. This is a sign of "waiting for the rice to go to the pot".
From a practical point of view, most of the jobs that come in quick money are "digging on the construction site, making screws in the factory, temporary workers, and porters", which are unstable, can be done by everyone, and sell coolies.
When a person reaches middle age, he finds that he has been staring at money and has lost the advantage of doing manual work, so that his life has entered a period of confusion.And those jobs that come slowly, the older they get, the more popular they are, that is, they are sixty or seventy years old, and they are still respected.
When Lu Xun was a child, his grandfather and father passed away one after another. The mother brought several children to grow up, and often had to pawn household items to make ends meet.
Although the family was poor, his mother sent Lu Xun to study. Considering the tuition problem, Lu Xun went to the Nanjing Water Master School, because the school is free of tuition and meals.
Lu Xun studied medicine, and then changed his career to literature. He suffered a lot and spent a lot of money, but then his income soared.
As a teacher in his hometown, he has a monthly salary of 30 silver yuan; Worked in the Ministry of Education in Nanjing, with a monthly salary of 200 silver yuan; He contributed to **, and his annual income was more than 700 silver yuan.
Lu Xun said: "I am a genius, I use other people's coffee time for work and study." ”Parents are willing to provide and children are willing to study hard, that is a long-term investment. Although it is difficult in the present, it will be happy in the future.
The technical content is high, it requires a lot of wisdom, and there is a threshold for a diploma, these jobs are difficult to obtain, but the value of the work is higher, and it can bring high returns.
The second type: work that follows the crowd and has no personality characteristics.
In the 90s of the last century, many children from rural areas went to Guangdong, Zhejiang and other places to work, earning a few hundred yuan a month, and some families built red brick houses by relying on their children to work.
At the end of the year, the young people who came back from part-time jobs were dressed brightly and enviously.
In our village, there are twenty or thirty young people, all in an electronics factory in Shijie Town, Dongguan.
When I was in my third year of junior high school, there were a few classmates in the class who contacted my fellow villagers early and wanted to go to Shijie Town to work.
More than 20 years have passed in a flash, and the first batch of young people who went to Dongguan to work have become people around 50 years old, and they are facing the embarrassment of elimination.
When you are older, many factories recruit workers, and you don't need them. The factory where I used to work could not accommodate older people for various reasons, or the factory had closed down.
Where is the way forward? The migrant workers in the village are at a loss. What's more, many people have not paid pension insurance because they went to work in small factories.
Investor Xu Xiaoping said: "No matter what work you do, if a person's work is irreplaceable by others, it will be considered successful." ”The work of following the crowd has released a signal - anyone can do this and do it well.
People have many characteristics, and from the beginning of entering the workplace, they have a lot of ideas. If you keep following the crowd, you will bury those "strange ideas", and you will be eliminated by the times step by step.
Unleash your own personality and constantly adjust your work direction, so that work and personality can promote each other.
There is a word called "set up posts for people".
When a person is very good in a certain aspect, then he will have a special position in the workplace and be favored by the unit.
Entrepreneur Ma Yun said: "To do a job, to do a job you like is a good entrepreneurship." ”When we were children, we often heard that "interest is the best teacher." ”
Unleash your nature and do the work you like, you will be in-depth and meticulous, so as to go out of a special way.
People should dare to break through, work is a starting point, or a springboard, after all, it is to "ride a donkey to find a horse", or to start a business by themselves, and plan a retreat in life.
There is a young man in our village who has been disassembling machinery since he was a child, and he has broken several clocks and watches at home. Parents think it's not a proper job.
Young people went into society, worked as watchmakers, and then learned to repair mobile phones. Now he has opened a mobile phone store and is the owner. Although I didn't make a fortune, I went further and further in the job I liked.
Educator Tao Xingzhi once said, "We need to train new parents and new teachers to cultivate a more blessed next generation." ”If you want to educate the next generation well, you must first improve the awareness of parents, so that parents have the ability to be teachers for their children, instead of waiting for their children to earn money to support their families. If a family is persistently poor, it means that the parents' awareness is too low, the occupation they plan for their children is too ordinary, and they are not encouraged to jump out of the circle and actively explore the circle.
As children,If you find that your career is very confused, it is too late to change from now.
Napoleon started as an artilleryman, Chaplin started as an actor, and his parents gave them a job, and if they were not satisfied, they would figure it out by themselves and dare to start from scratch.
Remember a quote from Leo Tolstoy: "Humanity has been endowed with a kind of work, and that is spiritual growth." ”
Grow at work, look for a new job while growing, don't stay in the wrong place for too long.
When you open your eyes to see, you are sight, and when you close your eyes and think, you are vision.
May you and I, my family, work well, and be financial.