The days of college students at home The days when college students go home for the Chinese New Year: from joy to "disgust" for the Spring Festival, it is the most anticipated time of the year for every student who is adrift. Xiao Zhang, a college student, was no exception, he packed his luggage early and stepped on the train home with joy and anticipation. On the first day home, Xiao Zhang was surrounded by the enthusiasm of his family. Mom prepares a hearty meal, while Dad asks him about his life at school with concern.
The warmth of home made Xiao Zhang feel extremely happy, and he secretly decided to spend time with his family this holiday. However, the good times were short-lived. As the holiday deepened, the contradictions between Xiao Zhang and his parents began to slowly emerge.
His parents wanted Zhang to spend the holiday in a way they lived, going to bed early and waking up early, helping with household chores, while Zhang wanted to have more free time to hang out with friends and play games. "Why do you sleep until noon and don't wake up? Mom's disgruntled voice broke the silence of the home. Xiao Zhang defended: "If you are on vacation, you should have a good rest." Dad also joined the "battle situation", accusing Xiao Zhang of only knowing how to play with his mobile phone all day long and not doing his job.
Xiao Zhang felt aggrieved and helpless. He feels that he has grown up and has his own way of life and pursuits, why can't his parents understand it? He began to miss his school days, where there were not so many constraints and accusations.
In fact, the contradiction between Xiao Zhang and his parents is a problem that many college students will encounter when they go home for the Chinese New Year. The lifestyles and concepts of the two generations are different, and it is easy to create friction. But it's all about communication and understanding. If both sides can put aside their preconceptions and listen patiently to each other's ideas, they may be able to find a balance. The Spring Festival is a festival of reunion, but also a festival of mutual understanding and tolerance. I hope that every college student who goes home can cherish the time with their families, resolve conflicts with love and patience, and make this holiday full of warmth and joy.