This question is surprising, why can't you do what you promised your child? Why can't you do it? Afraid that the child will not be able to dispose of 5000? Still can't come up with 5000? If there is such a concern, why is a reward of 5000 promised? Do you think that your child will not be able to take the first grade exam in a row?
Now back to the origin of the problem, if parents promise not to do it, they will lose the trust of their children forever. Is it worth it for children to never trust their parents again? Of course it's not worth it. Although I don't want to be reasonable, but I have to be reasonable, it is obvious that this matter is outrageous by parents. Parents' mistake 1: We should not simply use money to motivate children's growth, but should stimulate children's internal motivation to learn. Parents' mistake 2: Promising rewards but not being willing to honor them will cause children to never believe in their parents, and education after that will not be completed, because children don't believe in you. Remember the story of Zengzi killing a pig? Zengzi's wife said that it was just casual talk, but Zengzi really killed the pig. You must know that in ancient times, pigs were very valuable.
Therefore, the question now should be how to fulfill the promise, rather than how to remedy the consequences of not fulfilling the promise? If parents are afraid that their children will spend 5,000 yuan, they can open an account for their children, bind the parents' mobile phone number, and the money will be at the disposal of the children themselves. In this way, even if the child spends the money himself, the parent's mobile phone will be alerted.
In addition, a little advice, while fulfilling the promise, pay attention to the next promise, try not to have a large amount of cash, and use other incentives.