Just after the holiday season, the topic of "reading and replying" has attracted widespread attention.
You have such a high-speed machine into China, remember the principle I gave, when you were young, you ......”
At first glance, this sentence makes people completely confused, and it is precisely for this reason that when many young people are asked about topics such as "why don't they have a partner at their age", they respond with the above "classic line", which not only avoids the core of the problem but also refutes the face of relatives, which perfectly interprets "every sentence has a response, but in fact, every sentence has not been settled".
The ** exploded on the short ** platform in October last year, and some comments pointed out that it may be a sign of "broken thinking" or damage to the language center in the medical field. It is now being used as a "read scrambled" strategy.
The stalk of "has read and recalled" first appeared in the dialogue between the blogger "Scum Hui" and his grandfather, the blogger said to his grandfather in a hoarse voice, "I am yang, my throat is uncomfortable", and the grandfather said with a little confusion "I don't understand what a sheep is, what is a dog", quite a kind of "You said the front door building, he returned to the hip shaft" of joy.
Of course, such communication dilemmas are very common, and most of them stem from the different living environments of grandparents and grandchildren and the generation gap in access to information. And many young people take the initiative to use "read and reply", because they like to answer the mystery of the answer and divert the topic, and have their own set of magical logic, focusing on one that catches the other party off guard and is unexpected.
Therefore, it is not difficult to understand why "reading and recalling" is sought after by many young people during the Spring Festival. The "soul torture" of relatives during the New Year holidays generally hits the nail on the head, and all kinds of "serious topics" such as career, marriage, buying a house, and buying a car will be "put on the agenda". The social boundaries with colleagues and friends on weekdays are unconsciously broken, and some unfamiliar relatives comment on their private lives, which exacerbates the invisible pressure. Regardless of whether such a discussion is really "for your own good" or not, many young people feel "snooped" and "preached". It can be said that "read and recalled" adopts a harmonious way to skillfully balance the relationship between information sharing and privacy protection in family relationships.
It is undeniable that "reading and replying" alludes to the meaning of "perfunctory" to a certain extent, which will make people feel "rude" and "not taken seriously". However, I believe that most of the young people who have been tempered by life are very clear about the applicable occasions and suitable people. At a time when "workplace slang" such as "aligning granularity" and "getting through the underlying logic" are prevalent, there are too many formulaic and stylized communication in daily work and life that need to be "precisely disassembled", and the ever-expanding communication cost and communication anxiety are shrinking communication desires. In a relatively relaxed family environment, relatives and friends are undoubtedly more inclusive, and although the happy "nonsense" is nonsensical and absurd, it is also interesting and humane in the festive atmosphere, and young people find a short-term balance between self-expression and the conflict of reality.
Furthermore, family reunions and heart-warming exchanges are concrete expressions of family affection. You might as well have more positive emotional value output, less "privacy exploration" in the name of concern, more sincerity and patience in communication, and less "stereotypical hostility" towards relatives and friends, so that beneficial social connections blood and family affection, and "more sincerity, less routines" in communication between people.
Litchi Sharp Review, Author and Student).