In our lives, we often hear the exhortation: "Believe in character." However, what I would like to say is not to be easily deceived by human character, but to deeply understand human nature. In the course of our life's journey, we often hear people talk about how noble their character and how righteous their behavior is. However, we must admit that character is not static, it can also be affected by many factors, such as environment, education, experience, and so on. Therefore, we should not judge a person only by their character, but should have a deeper understanding of human nature.
Character is simply a person's performance in a specific environment, and it may be disguised. Human nature is the essence that lies deep in everyone's heart, and it determines a person's true reaction when faced with a choice.
For example, there are people who are kind and upright on the surface, but they may be treacherous in the face of great interests**. We cannot fully trust a person just because of his superficial behavior, but we must learn to observe the motivation of a person's behavior and the interests behind it. Of course, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and no one is perfect. Some people may appear very kind on the outside, but they are full of malice on the inside; And some people may appear aloof on the surface, but are actually very zealous. Therefore, we cannot be fooled by appearances and need to have a deep understanding of one's inner world.
Of course, understanding the weaknesses of human nature does not mean that we have to lose faith in the world. On the contrary, we should look at the relationship between people in a more rational and objective manner. In life, we must learn to distinguish between truth and falsehood, and not be deceived by superficial illusions. The psychologist Adler once said: "Maturity is not to understand things, but to understand human nature". Time knows people, but it is difficult to know the heart. People are mutual, because human nature is selfish, when you have no value, no one will love you at all, and the only one you can rely on is yourself.
So in our work, too, when we choose a partner, we must not only listen to their words, but also observe their deeds. A person may be rhetorical, but if he regularly breaks his promises in practice, then we should be wary of him. is like a sentence in "You from the Stars": "Human nature is like this, when you see others climbing higher than you, it doesn't mean that I want to go there too, but to say to others, come down, come down, come down in this quagmire." Therefore, a good character is not necessarily good in his nature, just like we often say: "There is a kind of evil that is called not being good in others, especially not being good in the people around you."
Therefore, do not be overly superstitious about human character, but look at human nature with a rational eye. In this way, we can stand in a complex society and avoid unnecessary harm. Let's face the challenges of humanity with wisdom and courage together, and move towards a wiser and more mature life.