Since giving birth to a baby, have you noticed that the originally gentle and considerate husband suddenly became "crippled"? He used to do everything, but now he is clumsy even changing diapers and making milk powder.
In fact, it is not that he has become "crippled", but that he is strong as a father, and he is willing to try anything for the sake of his children, which shows that he is a good husband and father.
So, if your man can do more than three things for you after having a baby, don't complain because he is already a good father.
1. Take the initiative to take on household chores
Before giving birth, housework was shared by the husband and wife. But after giving birth to a baby, due to the appearance of the child disrupting the original rhythm of life, many men will choose to be the "hands-off shopkeeper" and hand over all the housework to their wives.
If your man can still take the initiative to take on household chores after giving birth, such as cooking, laundry, cleaning, etc., then he must be a good father.
Because he knows that the family needs two people to run it together, and he, as a father, should also pay for the family.
2. Actively participate in parenting
Parenting is a task that requires patience and care, and many men tend to be at a loss when faced with their children's crying, feces and urine.
But if your man is always actively involved in the parenting process, such as changing diapers, making milk powder, playing with the child, etc., and in these processes, he is very patient and does not feel bored at all, but enjoys it, then he must be a good father.
Because he understands that parenting is a shared responsibility of husband and wife, he is willing to give more time and energy for the sake of children.
3. Take the pressure off for you
After giving birth, many mothers will experience postpartum depression and anxiety, which is caused by too much pressure to raise children.
If your man can comfort and support you when you're feeling down and take the stress out of parenting for you, he must be a good husband and dad.
Because he understands that there needs to be someone in the family to share the pressure, and he is willing to be your strong support.
4. Set an example for your children
A good father not only takes care of the family and the children, but also sets a positive example for the children.
If your man always shows positive, kind and upright qualities in his daily life, especially in front of his children, he always brings some positive words and deeds to his children, then he must be a good father who knows how to educate his children well.
Because he will use his actions to tell his children: how to be a responsible and responsible person.
5. Grow with you
It is inevitable that you will encounter various problems in the process of parenting, and if your man is willing to face and grow together with you, then he must be a good husband and father.
Because he understands that two people in the family need to grow and progress together. Only when both husband and wife become better people can a better future be created for their children.
To sum up, if your man can do three of the above five points for you after having a baby, then you should not complain because he is already a good husband and father.
At the same time, it is hoped that all fathers will be aware of their important position in the family, actively participate in the child-rearing process, and share family responsibilities and obligations with their wives. Because only in this way can the family be more happy and happy.
Of course, as a mother, you should also know how to cherish and appreciate your husband's efforts and dedication. Give your husband more care and encouragement in daily life, and less blame and complain. Only in this way can the relationship between husband and wife be more harmonious and happy, and create a better environment for children to grow up.
Finally, I wish all families happiness!