Home is a word with temperature.
Because here, you don't have to be on the strings all the time, you don't have to be on everything, and you don't have to be constantly competing with each other.
You feel unconditionally accepted, included, and supported.
To develop such a relaxed family atmosphere, you need to let go three times.
Let go of high expectations
I have heard the saying that not every child can succeed, but the child with the spark will definitely shine.
Every child comes into the world with their own spark.
Instead of putting too much pressure on them, let them do their best.
Many moments, the tighter the parent's rubber band, the easier it is for the child**.
The more you want the bamboo to be tippy, the more you have to give it enough space.
In the loose soil of education, the seeds can grow better.
Let go of too much blame
There is a saying: Many marriages break down, not because of a big event, but because of the accumulation of accusations and quarrels.
Sometimes, the words of reproach are like a thorn in the heart.
When the other party is unbearable, the relationship is no longer maintained.
Someone once said: "Husband and wife should know each other and understand each other, and then tolerate and love each other in order to maintain a happy marriage." ”
A good relationship is relaxing.
Because the family is not a battlefield, and the partner is not an enemy.
Blaming will only make each other feel depressed and suffocated, and only by tolerating each other's shortcomings can they get along more comfortably.
Let go of useless comparisons
There is a saying: in all family relationships, brothers and sisters are the ones who accompany each other and support each other for the longest time, which is a gift and a generous gift from parents to their children.
In this world, fame and fortune may be comparable, but family affection cannot withstand comparison.
Outsiders will compare each other face-to-face, and relatives will only rely on each other side by side.
When you can't see your brothers, it's hard to have a good relationship with each other.
The more willing you are to let go of your competitive spirit, the closer you will be to the other person's heart.
Home, not a battlefield, does not need to wave the flag and shout, no matter who wins or loses; Home, not a chessboard, does not need to be careful, watch out everywhere.
Put away expectations, let go of harshness, and give up comparison.
Only by one can one unload his guard and harvest the warmth of **.
Only a family can withstand the wind and rain of the world and support a harbor.