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Life, unlike acting, cannot be rehearsed repeatedly. However, as long as you live with your heart, plan with your heart, and observe with your heart, you will find that everything still has a pattern to follow.
As the saying goes, "Plant melons and get melons, and plant beans and get beans." ”
If you want to have a good outcome in your life, you must pay attention to the process.
A person's life, whether they live well or not, actually depends on their own management.
Many times, the reason why a person is not living well is actually because he has lived his life backwards.
Meet a friend who is very talented. When I was in school, I got good grades and was very good at drawing.
But after joining the work, he was repeatedly frustrated.
When he was a clerk, he hated doing things that were too trivial and he couldn't make money.
When he was doing design, he hated too many things for customers, and he always kept rushing to the draft, and he didn't get recognition, so he resigned at will.
Later, his parents helped him connect with a unit, and the work was easy, but he was too bored.
In his thirties, he achieved nothing, so he gnawed at home. Playing games every day has become the main business, relying on parents and wives at home, and I can't shoulder the responsibility at all.
He also said eloquently: "Anyway, my parents' pension can't be spent, so instead of leaving it to me in the future, it is better to let me live a better life now." ”
Later, his wife was overwhelmed and divorced him.
A person, getting worse and worse, is accustomed to enjoying life, accustomed to staying in a comfortable area, and unwilling to work hard to struggle and struggle.
Yu Minhong said: "Hardship and hardship are the source of happiness, and comfort and enjoyment are the beginning of suffering. ”People who are accustomed to staying in comfortable areas are used to being dependent on others and do not want to suffer.
Lazy life, no fighting spirit, accustomed to blindly indulging themselves, and a very negative attitude towards life.
Living a comfortable life too early seems to be a good life, but in fact, it can't withstand a little wind and waves. If you encounter an accident, the road ahead can only become more and more difficult.
In this life, people will pursue a lot of things and bear a lot of pressure.
Everything in the world has a cause and effect. If a person wants to get it, he will inevitably pay some price.
If we set ourselves too high goals and insist on pursuing things that are simply impossible.
If money is too important, you may neglect your health.
Holding on to money that shouldn't belong to you and refusing to let go, you're scared all day long for the money, and your mood becomes anxious.
Schopenhauer said, "The greatest mistake man can make is to trade his health for something outside his body." ”Squandering money and pursuing only fame and fortune will only make your life worse and worse in the end.
In order to make more money, I constantly worked overtime and exhausted my hard work and energy, and before I knew it, I would find that various diseases began to appear in my body.
Even if you make money, you don't have the life to spend it.
People don't pay attention to health, and no matter how much money they have, they are often in vain.
Jiang Jie in "Love Only" is devoted to his work and ignores his family.
He also deliberately created the image of a good man, stipulating that there must be a family dinner every Saturday.
However, this kind of formalized thing not only did not enhance the relationship between husband and wife, but also made his wife Chen Ke completely disappointed in him.
Chen Ke filed for divorce, and Jiang Jie felt incomprehensible.
I don't have vices, I work so hard to make money, and I give my wife and children such a good life, I don't know what's wrong.
For this reason, he also investigated his wife, thinking that his wife was in love with someone else, so he was determined to divorce him.
Later, I found out that my wife was not unfaithful to her relationship, just because he hadn't seriously managed each other's feelings for too long. His wife was already desperate for him.
Ibsen said, "Money can be the outer shell of many things, but it is not the fruit of it." ”Money is important, but you can't just chase it.
We go to make money to make our home better and make our family live a better life.
If so, on the road of struggle, if you don't pay attention to cultivating the relationship between husband and wife, love will be easily exhausted.
In the end, the family is scattered, and no matter how much money there is, it can't make up for the emptiness in my heart, and I can't realize what true happiness is.
On the road of life, everyone has a topic to learn. If you only look at the present and don't have a long-term plan, it's easy to waste time.
Don't live your life backwards, pay attention to proportions in everything, and advance and retreat appropriately.
Don't take laziness and slackness as enjoying life, hard work can really light up a happy life.
To protect your friends and family, you must work hard and take good care of yourself.
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Xiao Qian: A writer who loves words, loves words, and codes words for ten years. In his spare time, he will meet friends with words. For the rest of my life, with you by my side, life will be steaming.