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In the eyes of most people, longevity is a symbol of health and happiness, and almost everyone will have the wish of "blessing as the East China Sea, longevity than Nanshan" to the elderly, hoping that they can stay in this world for more.
But life itself also needs external things to support, only length and no quality, just to survive. The longer you stay, the more likely you are to feel sad.
Especially in the decade between the ages of 60 and 70, it is a sin to live too long without these things.
01: Lack of money, life is difficult
No matter what era it is, money is the guarantee of quality of life and the foundation of peace and security in old age.
Wealthy elderly people have the conditions to see a doctor, the confidence not to be influenced by others, and the ability to create a happy life.
Age is just a number for them, and any stage can create a unique vitality.
On the contrary, the old man who has no money is destined to be displaced when he is young, and he is still struggling to make ends meet when he is old, and the longer he lives, the more sins he suffers.
Sometimes they envy the lives that came to an abrupt end, because they didn't have to suffer anymore.
02: Lack of companionship, life is boring
are also alive, some people have a happy family and share the joy of family, and some people are alone and can only move forward alone, and the quality of them is thousands of miles apart.
In their later years, what people fear most is not that they have reached the end of their lives, but that they are still alive, but that they have no one to accompany them. In reality, this is the norm for many people.
The children are busy and have little time to come back, and their lovers may be scattered at some point, and they can only walk alone.
Growing old means being separated, and being alone is also a shadow of loneliness.
Living alone in a cold house, with no one to talk about what is on your mind, the sadness can be imagined.
Many elderly people also leave shortly after the death of their loved ones, perhaps not because life should have ended here, but because they have lost the faith to live.
We are all ordinary people who need emotional support from the outside world.
In the upheaval of the world, only when someone hugs each other for warmth can they have the courage to move forward, otherwise there will only be regrets left in life.
We can't predict whether we will be alone or in groups in the future, at least in the present, cherish the people around us, it is because of them that life is full of fun.
has the family affection for the rest of his life, and he also has the confidence to respect life.
03: Without health, life is hard
On a social network, a young man uploaded his father's last wish when he died.
At that time, the father was already seriously ill, and the son sold the car and house, and he also had to heal the father, thinking that the father could be comforted, but he still begged his son to interrupt **.
It's not that the father turns a blind eye to his son's filial piety, and he is also very pleased that his son can do this for himself, but he just uses drugs and ** to survive, which is also purgatory on earth for him. Rather than survive in all kinds of pain, he prefers to be able to leave safely and easily.
I believe this is also a problem that many people will encounter in real life, some diseases can not be **, can only delay, children look at the vital signs of their parents, feel comforted, but the parents in it may not be really happy.
When people are old and lack health, they suffer in vain when they live.
Without dignity and the ability to enjoy life, what can you do if you live to be 100 years old? It's just a helplessness to add to life.
It can be seen that we should pay more attention to health, and only health can ensure the quality of life.
Even though this life is very short, I have not endured the torture of illness, and it can be regarded as a painful journey.
Compared to the people who procrastinate their lives, you are lucky enough.
The meaning of life is not in length, but in width, whether you can live yourself in a short life, cherish what you have is very important, and you don't have to be entangled in whether you can live a long life.
After all, for those who have nothing, longevity is precisely a kind of torture.
I hope that everyone can see it, be grateful for every encounter in life, and try to expand the quality of the rest of their lives.
As long as you can be happy every moment, no matter how old you live in the future, you will be satisfied.
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