We all go through ups and downs in the journey of life, and we recognize this more clearly when we reach middle age. The two words in "Zhou Yi", "No Ji Tai Lai" and "No Tai Ji No Lai", tell us that when we hit the bottom, we will usher in a turnaround, and when we reach the peak, we will gradually go downhill. These two words need to be seen side by side, because life is a process of ups and downs. In our middle age, especially between the ages of 55 and 60, we need to be vigilant if there are some unfortunate signs around us.
In the face of an unfortunate beginning, if we pursue desires excessively, it is a false beginning. Qiu Chuji mentioned that only the basic needs of food, clothing, housing and transportation need to be met, which is plainlifeIt's the best. However, many people are overly greedy, not satisfied with the status quo, and constantly strive for more. They crave more money and more material comforts, and this greed only brings more resentment and anxiety. As the ancients said, "greed leads to poverty in the end", and excessive pursuit will lead us to poverty.
Another unfortunate start was excessive risk-taking. In order to get rich overnight, some people do not hesitate to invest all their savings, and even borrow money to mortgage their houses, and devote themselves to high-risk investments. However, the result is often failure and debt. At a certain age, we should stop taking risks and pursue a stable and stable life. Stability is the greatest wisdom in life.
The rift in family relationships is also an unfortunate beginning. When we reach the age of 55, the pressure of providing for the elderly begins to increase, and we expect our children to be able to support us. But sometimes we see other people's children succeeding while our own children fail to meet our expectations, which can lead us to feelings of disgust and disgust. Then we will act towards our children in a relationship-hurting way, imposing our expectations on them. However, as parents, we don't have to. Everyone has their own destiny and choices, and we shouldn't interfere too much. We should maintain a good relationship with our children and not rely too much on them. Sometimes, simply being close to your child is enough.
Another unfortunate start is excessive self-pressure. In the present daySocial, fierce competition,RelationshipsComplex. We often fall into a state of involution and internal friction, resulting inlifeDecreased quality. Although involution is inevitable, we can control our internal friction. Thinking too much about small things and being overly anxious about problems are all wastes of time and energy. We need to realize that our calculations are meaningless in order to truly embrace themlifein a better thing.
Looking back on my own life and thinking about the beginnings of these signals and misfortunes, I deeply appreciate the fragility and fickleness of life. As I enter middle age, I am cautious about my desires and ambitions, focusing on my inner peace and contentment. I would choose stability and stability over taking risks and chasing illusory wealth. I will maintain a good relationship with my family and respect their choices andlifeManner. The most important thing is that I will let go of unnecessary worries and focus on inner peacelifequality. Only then will I be able to embrace a better life between the ages of 55 and 60.