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Lisa Crazy Horse Show danced **, and under the continuous fermentation, it is not easy for women to pursue freedom and equality.
Stereotype: Girls pink, boys blue".
Men are rational, women are emotional. ”
It is unforgivable for a woman to cheat, and a man to cheat is to make a mistake that every man makes. ”
In a patriarchal environment, women are often classified as weak and instilled that "only ** men can live".
This erroneous idea of using the body as a resource to obtain living space ignores the value of women themselves and poisons women's correct cognition.
White and thin, giving birth to a son, there are still people who flock to it.
And the bravery, knowledge, faith, resources, etc., which are respected by the strong, these powerful things that can really make a person live better in the world, women often need to pay more energy to obtain.
Because of the patriarchal culture, you think "you don't want it", and the intergenerational transmission is reasonably completed.
Common intergenerational statements are:
The water spilled by the married daughter. ”
Find a good man, there will be everything. ”
This long-term, social spiritual identity will make many people feel that they just want to be thin and young, and only want to have a son, until they have to go down this road later.
"In the long run, the repetition of statements enters the deep areas of our unconscious selves where our motivations for action are formed. At some point, we will forget who is the author of that constantly repeated claim, and we will eventually become convinced of it. ”
By encouraging women to become male dependents, to gain living space, and to rationalize patriarchal thinking, this becomes the collective unconscious.
This kind of conventional ** rule will make people who believe in patriarchy think: This is reasonable.
When a person blindly follows consciousness just to integrate into society, he often loses himself and loses his ability to discriminate. Mixed in the team that supports Lisa's ** dance, due to the large number of people, there is an illusion that the living environment of oneself can be equal by supporting the freedom of the "strong" to put on and take off.
Only by jumping out of the stereotyped framework of the collective unconscious that "dressing conservatively is feudal, and wearing cool is freedom" and maintaining independent thinking can we achieve freedom and equality.
Lisa Crazy Horse Show, some people think: take off your clothes, wear them freely. By exposing oneself, you gain control over your body.
The underlying logic of this wrong way of "going to the opposite side of men" is to expect the absolute realization of women's freedom from the beneficiaries of patriarchy.
But in the end, it points to a further squeeze on women's living space.
The bravery of standing in opposition to men and fighting for freedom is worth emulating, but the method is wrong.
Let women gain freedom and equality, it is by no means a ** dance!
Behind Lisa's crazy de-fanning, it is precisely the realization of contemporary women: who is the real beneficiary behind the false freedom, and not cooperating with the beneficiary to play their game, is the key to our freedom.
Only by jumping out of the patriarchal game rules and focusing on shaping personal values, spiritual independence, and emotional independence, can you become the master of your own life.
We are not afraid of ** dance, what we are worried about is the intensification of resource inequality, the deepening of female objectification, and the re-squeeze of living space.
I believe that all women in different corners of the world, in their own way, do their best for freedom and equality, and for themselves and future generations to have a better living environment!
Salute to every woman who struggles to survive!
I am Xiao Dan, who has been working as an emotional counselor for three years, a writing therapy sharer, trained 90+ emotional listeners, and received 200 hours of visits. It is committed to helping women who lack happiness and emotional dependence after marriage learn to understand human nature, control human nature, gain control of relationships, achieve emotional and spiritual independence, and improve life happiness. Provide reliable emotional counseling, same-sex counseling, and writing therapy services