Dear friends, today I would like to share with you a little bit about speaking. Whether you are a dignitary or an ordinary person, remember that each of us has emotional moments, and I have to tell you at this time, no matter how good you are, no matter how good you feel, your IQ will become zero in that instant. Also, this state may only last for a few seconds, but be careful not to make important decisions at this time.
First of all, let's take a look at the well-known philosopher Socrates: There is nothing more advantageous in the mall than "I was wrong". There's a simple and effective lesson to be learned: admitting mistakes not only shows your courage and humility, but also makes the other person feel respected and understood.
It has also been said, "Silence is golden". We need to learn to listen and listen to the ideas of the people around us, so that we can better understand their needs and concerns and strengthen our relationships. At this time, we should avoid being a person who can't really communicate with others even though his mouth is constantly talking. Instead, we should strive to be a good listener. Sometimes, expressing one's opinions and feelings without more or less can get more people's support and approval.
Let's talk about when to speak slowly. When you encounter an emergency, stop and think about it for a while, unless you can explain things calmly, your panicked appearance will give people the impression of being careless. So, even if it's something you're not in a hurry, try to speak as slowly as possible. In our fast-paced society, sometimes slowing down will make you look more stable, so that people will naturally trust and cooperate with you more.
So let's talk about the little things. If you can grasp the little things in life and tell them as jokes in a light-hearted and humorous way, it will not only not make others feel bored, but even make them feel more familiar.
Also, when you're unsure about something, be cautious. After all, it's easy to say it, but it's hard to get the money back. Sometimes, if you deliberately keep your mouth shut about certain things, others will think that you are a braggart person, but if you can be subtle, others will think that you are a reliable person and believe you.
Of course, sometimes we need to imagine. Because we are always in the habit of trying to figure out something that never happened. However, you can't talk nonsense as a person, otherwise, it will only make people think that you are an unreliable person. So, when you're unsure, don't guess or talk nonsense.
There's one more important thing to tell you – it's better to say it nicely than to say it beautifully. You can't say that kind of mouth smearing honey, but really hurtful speech. In any case, you should not use your words to hurt others, even if you are talking to your own family or friends. In this way, they will also feel that you are a kind person and are willing to continue to maintain and deepen their emotional connection with you.
Speaking of which, I am also reminded of a phrase I used to say when I was a child, which was to "bring happiness to others". In fact, many people around us don't know how to express their emotions and thoughts, so we need to provide opportunities for them to talk about their hearts. In addition, when we hear about other people's difficulties or concerns, we must also do our best to help them get rid of their troubles and regain their happiness in life.
Finally, when talking to older people, we should try to get them to talk as much as possible, and we should add to them as appropriate. You know, the old people don't want us young people to tell them too much about their affairs. The same is true for husband and wife, if there is something to do, you have to communicate and negotiate well, so that you can understand each other and increase your feelings for each other. For the children, we need to guide them with patience and determination, so that we can both increase our intimacy and make them listen.
In general, speaking is indeed a science. Whether at work, at school or in life, we all need to use appropriate words to build good interpersonal relationships. Let's work together to be consistent with our words and deeds, not exaggerated, and treat everything carefully and carefully, so that life will become better and better.