As the New Year approaches, the winter vacation is coming to an end, and the children's minds have re-entered the life of the new semester, and the homework of the summer vacation has become a temporary "tight spell". And parents are not far behind, acting as "homework consultants" to accompany their children through difficulties.
However, as parents, they all know very well how difficult it is to teach a student, and sometimes they will be angry with themselves. However, there is such a parent in Hangzhou who was so carried away by anger that he couldn't even see his eyes.
Mr. Yang from Hangzhou, who is almost 40 years old this year and has just graduated from his master's degree, thinks it should be easy to teach a primary school child. But what is the truth? Alas, the dream is beautiful, but the reality is cruel. The third grade of primary school seems to have become a "hurdle" on the way for many students to study, and even the son of the Yang family has not been able to catch up.
Mr. Yang admits that every time he tutors his students, his heart burns like he is riding a rocket. But that kid, who looked leisurely and complacent, said that he wanted to go to the bathroom and drink saliva, which made Boss Yang very annoyed and anxious. The child's academic performance fluctuated up and down, like riding a roller coaster, which made Mr. Yang's mood fluctuate as a father. The more he got to the college entrance examination, the more nervous he became, and even when he was sleeping, he would do the test papers with his son.
About a year ago, one day in Yang, there was a strange feeling in his eyes, everything he saw was so unclear. At that time, he didn't think much about it, he just felt that it was a temporary fatigue, and it would be good to take a rest.
Unexpectedly, these two children quarreled over a summer vacation. Seeing that the new semester was about to start, but half of the homework was not completed, the anger in Mr. Yang's heart rushed out, and he scolded his son. And so, the eerie scene resurfaced and became more intense.
Boss Yang didn't dare to hold it up, so he hurried to the hospital. The medical examination report showed that his eyes were originally 10, but now it's 06. And under the eye, there is also a small hole of "leakage". The doctor said it was because he was too nervous, too nervous.
At the same time, the doctor also specially advised Mr. Yang, especially young people, to know how to "relax" their eyes, regulate the pressure of work and life, and put themselves in a healthy state. Otherwise, not only will your eyes "strike", but your body will also be affected.
Alas, thinking about it this way, I really feel a little sympathetic to Mr. Yang. Tutoring is a chore in itself, and the tension of work and the trivialities of daily life inevitably make people nervous and nervous. However, the "body bones" are the most important, and the "eyes" are the "window of the soul".
Therefore, while guiding their children, parents should also pay attention to regulating their emotions and make their emotions relaxed. After all, children's schooling is a long-term plan, and there is no urgency. In addition, you also need to learn how to take care of yourself and put yourself in a healthy physical and mental health, so that you can grow up better with your baby.
I wish you all success in your work during the holidays and prepare for the new year; I also wish all parents, in the process of bringing their children to grow up, take good care of themselves and make life more beautiful.