The first meeting between the parents is an important moment in the family relationship, and there is a certain etiquette and attention to be followed. Here are some things to look out for:
1.Appointment time: First of all, you need to make an appointment in advance to ensure that both parents have free time to meet. It's best to choose a middle point that is convenient for everyone to avoid inconvenience or fatigue for one party.
2.Location: Choose a suitable venue, such as a restaurant, teahouse or café, to ensure that the environment is elegant, quiet and easy to socialize. At the same time, book a private room or private area for better privacy.
3.Dress code: When you meet, pay attention to your appearance and attire, and try to be decent, neat, and generous. Avoid outfits that are too casual or too bizarre to avoid making a bad impression on the other person.
4.Introduce each other: When you meet, introduce each other so that both parents get to know each other. Pay attention to the appropriate words, be kind, and respect the opinions and opinions of the other party. At the same time, take the initiative to ask each other about their family situation and work situation in order to get to know each other better.
5.Communication: When meeting, communicate actively to avoid cold or awkward situations. You can talk about topics of common interest, such as tourism, culture, sports, etc. At the same time, care should be taken to avoid touching on sensitive topics such as politics, religion, economics, etc.
6.Respect your elders: When you meet, be respectful of your elders and make a good impression on each other's parents. Take the initiative to give up your seat, pour tea, pick up vegetables, etc., and pay attention to details and etiquette. If there are any problems or contradictions, they should be communicated and resolved in a timely manner to avoid unpleasant situations.
7.Gift preparation: When you meet, you can prepare some small gifts, such as bouquets, chocolates, tea, etc., to show your heart and respect. Gifts don't need to be overly expensive, but they need to be delicate, appropriate, and appropriate for the occasion and atmosphere.
8.Language communication: If both parents have language communication barriers, they can discuss in advance whether they need an interpreter or use some simple language communication. When meeting, try to use simple and clear language and vocabulary to avoid misunderstandings and ambiguities.
9.End goodbye: Towards the end of the meeting, say goodbye to each other and express gratitude and blessings to each other. At the same time, agree on a time and place for the next meeting so that you can continue to keep in touch and communicate.
In short, both parents need to follow certain etiquette and attention to detail when meeting for the first time, and pay attention to details and communication methods. Through mutual understanding and exchange, we can deepen our feelings and friendship with each other, and lay a good foundation for future exchanges.