Written by Rouran.
Some people say that love also has a flowering period, and when it expires, it is just a beautiful but doomed scenery outside the window, and a rose that blooms and will eventually wither.
Many people have the illusion that the person they love will not leave easily, but in fact, love is fluid, it will shift, and it will disappear.
If loving someone is to give and give willingly, then not loving is to go to the top.
When a man starts to put away these things, it is a sign that the relationship has been broken and the other person no longer loves you.
A man who truly loves you will show you great patience and will tolerate all your petty tempers and vexatious flickering.
The girl Jiang Yizhi said that day: "I was deeply liked, and that kind of love and doting were too clear, so that the later dislove was clearly visible." ”
In the past, when Yizhi was angry, her boyfriend always silently endured her little temper, bought snacks to make her happy, and would take her out to travel on weekends.
It seems that at that time, his goal in life was to make the girl he loved happy, and he laughed when she laughed, she was unhappy, and he didn't have a good time that day.
The ** porridge of the two people every night is indispensable, a dozen is two or three hours, chatting with each other, and reluctantly hanging up late at night**.
But the relationship is like a changing weather, the two have been together for less than a year and a half, his feelings have all changed, he no longer pays attention to her everything, and even a five-minute ** call is too long.
He didn't have the patience to listen to her, and he didn't have the patience to take care of her emotions, and the two always hung Yizhi when they quarreled, without coaxing.
is also angry, I used to think she was cute, but now I think she is hypocritical.
Once Yizhi squatted down to tie her shoelaces, and when she raised her head after tying her shoes, the other party had already disappeared, and she was so sad at that moment.
Suddenly remembered that she had put on makeup in the dormitory before, and he sat quietly on the chair downstairs in the dormitory and waited, never urging Yizhi or complaining.
She finally knew that it was time to let go of this relationship, and impatience was the beginning of a person's desperation, and it was also the best proof of not loving.
Only when a person is completely tired of you will be impatient with you and will not be mixed with any distress.
Xiaoyun once told me about her experience, some of the friends I knew at that time fought with Xiao San, some were cautious with their ex-husbands because of the division of property, and some were restless because of the relationship between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Only she and her husband Lao Wu have always had a stable relationship, and they are also known as a model representative of middle-aged couples by friends in the circle.
But all the changes started when Lao Wu fell in love with fishing, and Lao Wu was willing to accompany him to buy groceries, cook, go shopping and watch movies after work.
Now fishing has become his biggest hobby, often going out all day, in Xiaoyun's opinion, going out fishing is better than having an affair with other women, so she let him go.
Later, the reality laughed at her fiercely, and the so-called fishing was just going to meet someone else, but she was too stupid at that time.
Xiaoyun's best friend Shanshan said in one sentence: Men who don't even give you time can have a little love for you in their hearts, and most of those men who don't accompany you spend their time with others.
The man who loves you will give you his time throughout the day, will stay with you, and will be willing to accompany you even if it is boring.
Even if you don't meet, I will chat with you on WeChat, talk, and dispel the loneliness in your heart with silent companionship.
If a man no longer spends time with you, it means that he must not love you because everything is more important in his life than you.
In fact, love and non-love, deep or shallow, the person in it feels the most distinct.
In a relationship, when a man is no longer in love, he will no longer see you in his eyes, and he will not be able to hold you in his heart, and he will become indifferent and impatient.
When you clearly feel the boredom and alienation of the other person, it is better not to bother him and give him back his freedom.
Although it hurts to let go, you must know that the person who does not love you will be busy today and will not be free tomorrow, he is impatient with you, and he will not accompany you in the future.
Instead of entanglement, it is better to choose to face and accept it calmly, let go of obsessions, and start again.
In order to meet the scenery that belongs to you in the wilderness of life, and have true happiness.