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Breakups are all too common in modern society. But if your ex sends you a message out of the blue, do you reply or not? It's a tangling question because everyone's situation is different.
First of all, it depends on your own mood. If you've completely let go of the relationship, it's not a big deal to get a message back. But if you still have feelings for your ex, then replying to the letter may be self-inflicted heartache, and even plant unrealistic expectations for yourself. So, before deciding whether to go back or not, you have to touch your heart to see if you really let go.
Secondly, you have to figure out the other person's intentions. Your ex may message you for many reasons, such as wanting to get back together, apologize, or simply want to chat. If you feel that replying will cause a lot of trouble or misunderstanding, it is better not to reply. But if you feel like you can have a pleasant chat or be honest about your questions, then a reply is not impossible.
Finally, we also have to consider social etiquette. Do you think, if you don't come back, will people think that you don't respect him? But wouldn't it be worse if more problems came up when they got back?
So, whether or not you can reply to your ex's information depends on your own specific situation. If it's already put down, there's nothing to worry about; If you haven't completely put it down, or if you feel that there will be a problem if you reply, it is better not to reply. At the same time, we also have to try to take into account each other's feelings, respect and attention still have to be there.