"The choice is greater than the effort, the premise is to choose the right one".
10-20 years is the 10 years of rapid development of the Internet industry, along with the demographic dividend, the development of the industry, the rise of a large number of companies.
From the earliest BAT to the later ***, it can be said that the migrant workers who initially followed the start-ups of these companies no longer need to work part-time, which is the right result.
From the 90s to the early 2000s, it was a period of rapid development of real estate, similar to the Internet outlet, when people were willing to spend money to buy real estate, and now they have appreciated significantly.
But every industry has its bonus period, and not everyone can join in the bonus period at the right time.
As a result, the house price is now the best, counting the money, intermediary fees and interest, and it has been repaid for 3 years, with a total loss of 300,000. Self-deprecating came to Beijing to work for 2 years, and the money earned was not as good as losing, and it was in vain. The friend I talked about today bought a house in Xi'an in 21 years, with a house price of 149w and a loan of 1.04 million. After buying a house, the loan repayment mode was opened, and according to the method of repaying the interest first and then repaying the loan, it took 3 years to repay 200,000 yuan, and the principal was only repaid 50,000 yuan.
We look at it through the lens of choice and effort
Event 1: It is a wise choice to choose Beijing to work hard, Xi'an to buy a house, and relatively high wages to buy low housing prices.
Event 2: Then choose to give up the deposit at the age of 21, buy a house with a salary loan, and convert the deposit into real estate with the possibility of appreciation, which is also a rational choice.
Event 3: Then at the end of 23 years the house price **, the subject thinks that he has a big loss, which is the fluctuation of the market, or it can be said that the result of the choice is not as expected.
Whoever looks at it actually did it right, right?,But result 3 seems to have directly denied everything.。
Some netizens mentioned that if they don't buy a house, they should have a deposit of 1 million, which seems to be more cost-effective than buying a house, right? So when it comes to choosing more than hard work, the premise is not only to choose the right one, but also to be right continuously, just like in **, as long as your money is not raised, how much the rise and fall is just paper data.
But what if he didn't hold back and listened to someone's persuasion and went to **? Catching up with the recent **, this kind of decline fluctuation, I'm afraid it's not as simple as falling 300,000.
Of course, without his efforts in first-tier cities, there would be no later choice.
The choice is greater than the effortThis sentence itself is not simple at all, and it requires a person's strength + luck behind it to be extremely high. Most of us have already made the best decision in our own right of mind when we make a choice.
So after hard work, when the outcome of the choice comes, accept it, because it may already be the 'best' result of all the possibilities that we have encountered.