On the web, I read something like this:
There are two selves that inhabit everyone's heart, one is the self that is prone to collapse at night, and the other is the self that heals itself unrelentingly during the day.
In the silence of the night, our feelings are ruthlessly amplified, as if there is nowhere to escape. Therefore, you can choose to be sad, but avoid making any decisions in the night. Hold on until dawn, and the darkness will dissipate and happiness will naturally come.
The vulnerability of adults, especially at night, becomes unusually clear.
Have you ever felt this way? When night falls and the surroundings are quiet, all the emotions seem to be infinitely magnified.
Those weaknesses that were hidden during the day suddenly sprouted in the dead of night.
You can think that this is hypocritical or contrived, but I always feel that I am the most real at this time.
It is often in the most intimate corners that we are most likely to weep, and in the deepest darkness, we are most likely to tremble. The fragility of adults is like the stars in the night sky, the darker it is, the more twinkle it is, and although the area is not large, it is enough to attract the eye.
You can wallow in grief, but avoid making any decisions late at night.
Everyone has moments of sadness, and vulnerability is everywhere. But when sadness strikes, wait a moment. Never make a decision when it's overflowing, and don't contribute to it before it bursts.
In the story of "Beijing Women's Illustrated Guide", when Chen Ke first came to Beijing, he stayed at a friend's house.
Unexpectedly, this friend had bad intentions towards her. Chen Ke broke free of him and ran out with his luggage.
Homeless, she met an old man selling corn under the street lamp, and wanted to buy corn to satisfy her hunger, but found that the money was not enough. The old man took pity on her and gave her half price corn. Chen Ke was eating corn and weeping.
Despite her heavy heart, she gave herself time to buffer. She didn't go home impulsively, nor did she rely on others when she was most vulnerable.
Instead, after a night's rest, he found other classmates and gradually gained a foothold in the metropolis. Many tragedies occur because they don't make it until dawn, and many regrets arise because they make decisions alone in the middle of the night.
You never know how a decision you make when you crash could have a profound impact on yourself and others. Someone on the Internet said: "Don't shed tears in front of people, don't make decisions late at night." "But I would say that even if you are crying in front of people, please avoid making decisions late at night.