I tried to love, but I kept missing.
1. In the days of getting along, we always think that we have enough time to make up for each other's regrets, every quarrel, we look forward to the next tolerant treatment, and every cold war, we look forward to taking the initiative to break the silence.
We all think that there are countless "next times" in life. Those emotional wounds seem to be slowly healed by time. However, time can only repair external wounds, but deep wounds are difficult to heal.
The disappointed person will not keep watching and waiting, he will choose to leave your world on the day his patience runs out, and he will not even say goodbye.
1. 2.Once, we always thought that a vigorous love was real love, so we would blame the person next to us for not being romantic and careful enough.
However, those expected love may be just self-made fantasies. In fact, true love does not need to be so gorgeous and unforgettable, it only needs that person who can accompany you through every stage of life when you need it, and never give up, this is true love.
We are always selfish and willful, ignoring the good of each other again and again, until the other person is extremely disappointed and leaves us. 3.People who value feelings tend to be more sensitive, and their inner world is like a castle, and it is difficult to open their hearts to others.
Once they accept a person, they will give everything without reservation, even at the expense of their own interests. But sometimes, they meet unworthy people who always put themselves first, ignore the feelings of others, and are always giving in and accommodating.
Although people who value feelings are unwilling to owe others, they are often let down and end up leaving themselves alone to heal. So, I want to say to those who are emotionally heavy, don't be stupid, some people don't deserve all your efforts.
Don't sacrifice yourself for the sake of those who don't deserve it, but learn to protect yourself and pursue your own happiness.
4. He is the sunshine in your heart, no matter where you go, you will think of him. When you see a beautiful scenery, you will immediately take a picture and share it with him, taste the food, and you will carefully buy an extra copy to bring to him.
Even though he lacks nothing, you still want the best for him. As the saying goes, "Love is the feeling that he needs your care even if you have enough food and clothing." ”
However, as time went on, quarrels and nitpickiness began to appear, and even stubbornness became more and more serious. When the conflict occurs, neither of you is willing to bow your head, so you start a cold war, run away, and constantly hurt each other until you are exhausted, until you can't fall in love.
5. We are always full of expectations for relationships, but the results are different. Some people live happily ever after, while others live so badly that they don't even know whether to move forward or backward.
We envy those who are treated well in the first place, who have not experienced deception, quarrels, and disappointment. However, in the saddest moments, we also ask ourselves why it is ourselves who lose, and there are many things in the relationship that cannot be explained and understood.
We can't explain why we like someone, and we can't understand why that person can't like us.
6. Sometimes looking up at the starry sky, a person's name will involuntarily appear in your heart, and you really want to ask: Are you okay? However, there is some nostalgia, which can only be pinned on Starlight, hoping that when he looks up, he can feel a trace of concern.
We all understand that the road in the past and the people we meet are only small parts of life, and only by letting go at the right time can we move forward more easily. But although the truth is understood, how many can really do it?
Someone told me that the meeting between people is not only for the exchange of names, but also for the infinite blending, protection and longing in the limited life.