Women breastfeeding young babies are supposed to sing the praises of the greatness of mothers, but in modern times this seems to have become uncivilized behavior, and motherhood loses its privacy while breastfeeding. Collective onlookers, pinching and other words have become the label of breastfeeding. In some places, there are still incidents of strange men breaking into the nursing room at will. When it comes to breastfeeding, is it okay for women to stay at home?
In 2008, Wenchuan was hit by natural disasters, which was a scar in the hearts of many people, families were scattered, and physical and mental injuries were shown to be terrible. There are also many things in the rescue process, whether it is sad or joyful, it is a sporadic little thing, which is spliced together and spliced into a major event for people to resist natural disasters.
Jiang Xiaojuan, as a policeman in the rescue, also helped to do something about breastfeeding, maybe just mentioning the key words, the first impression is to bare-chested in front of many people**, it's too shameful, but is this really the case? As a mother, Jiang Xiaojuan's unintentional move has also become the most heartwarming scene in Wenchuan.
At that time, the ** in Wenchuan was very serious, and the earthquake affected nearly half of Sichuan, and the collapsed houses and fleeing figures all showed that people were powerless under the disaster. But there will always be stars to rise up against disasters, and the people's policeman Jiang Xiaojuan is a shining star.
After Wenchuan**.
Jiang Xiaojuan is in Jiangyou, which is more than 100 kilometers away from Wenchuan, at this time she has just become a mother, and the child who is waiting to be fed at home is still waiting for her, but in the family affection and rescue, she gave priority to rescue, left her son to be taken care of by his parents, and made the choice of giving up her small family to save everyone in times of crisis.
After the Jiangyou City Public Security Bureau organized the earthquake relief command operation, a large number of police officers began to rush to Beichuan and Pingwu to carry out rescue. When they arrived in Beichuan, it was already evening, and the police began to be busy with almost no daily necessities due to the urgency of the rescue.
Handing out food, setting up tents, and handling the wounded all require human assistance, and no policeman threatens to back down in the face of the danger of possible aftershocks. With the intense rescue, Jiangyou City has also received nearly tens of thousands of victims, and many people are suffering from hunger and waiting for rounds of resource allocation in the case of limited resources, and the situation of young babies is even more difficult.
Without milk powder, breastfeeding women also need to nurse their children, and this demand has led to many children dying in swaddling clothes due to hunger, and the families holding the children can only stomp their feet in a hurry.
As a novice mother, Jiang Xiaojuan's eyes immediately turned red after seeing this scene, and the crying of these children reminded her of her own children, and the little baby could only rely on crying to vent her demands.
The first thing Jiang Xiaojuan saw was Yaoyao, who was more than 2 months old, Yaoyao's mother was hit by debris falling from the ceiling in ** and was sent to the hospital for emergency **, and the volunteers holding Yaoyao could only coax the child over and over again because there was no milk powder. This scene touched Jiang Xiaojuan, who is also a mother, and then Jiang Xiaojuan said: ".Give it to me, I have milk, I'll feed it.
Untied the police uniform on her body, held the child in her arms, and constantly comforted the child while facing her chest to Yaoyao, perhaps under the light of the aura of maternal love, Yaoyao stopped crying and began to swallow heavily.
Jiang Xiaojuan saw Yaoyao, who was hungry, and whispered: ".Baby, eat slowly, don't be in a hurryThere are a lot of people in the resettlement site in the disaster area, there is no single room and no mother and baby room, Jiang Xiaojuan can only breastfeed in such an environment, which is also a little embarrassing for her. In the past, when feeding her baby, she would choose a place where no one was around, but now in public, she did not hesitate, and the only thing she said was to comfort the child.
In the ** photographed by the reporter, Jiang Xiaojuan can be seen sitting on the ground in the disaster area, the police uniform on her upper body is half open, holding Yaoyao in her arms, accompanied by the eyes of others, Jiang Xiaojuan's lips are slightly raised, and her shallow smile sets off the greatness of maternal love.
At this time, there was an eldest lady in the crowd of onlookers who attracted Jiang Xiaojuan's attention, and she asked: ".Hello, what's wrong, what's the matterI learned that there are still many children who can't eat milk, and the eldest lady also wants her to help her own children when she sees Jiang Xiaojuan breastfeeding Yaoyao.
Jiang Xiaojuan did not hesitate under the eyes of the public, took the child in the hands of the eldest mother and began to breastfeed, after feeding this child and another child began to cry, and after feeding another child, the child also made a whimpering sound because he couldn't wait, Jiang Xiaojuan simply fed one in one hand and fed two children at the same time.
At this time, Jiang Xiaojuan's police uniform has changed from slightly open at the beginning to open on both sides, no one peeked or uttered foul language, everyone just waited quietly, and after the people in the disaster area learned that someone could help the children breastfeed, one or two rushed over to seek Jiang Xiaojuan's assistance.
Rescue is not only to snatch people from death under the backlog of floor slabs, Jiang Xiaojuan's rescue method is also admirable, she saved fragile lives. Some of these children are temporarily absent from their side because of their mother's injury, just like Yaoyao, and some have directly lost their mother who loves them.
Due to the constant breastfeeding, Jiang Xiaojuan's chest began to swell and hurt, and no matter how unwell she was, she did not stop her from rescuing the children. There were as many as 9 young babies in the disaster area who were helped by Jiang Xiaojuan.
Jiang Xiaojuan did not choose to save these children only for one day, every day in the disaster area since then, she will go to feed the 9 little babies, after the babies are familiar with Jiang Xiaojuan's arms, no matter how hard they cry, as long as Jiang Xiaojuan hugs, the babies will stop crying. The people in the disaster area also loved Jiang Xiaojuan very much, and gave her a title."Police Mom
The parents of the children are very grateful to Jiang Xiaojuan, and they have said that when their children grow up, they must repay Jiang Xiaojuan well, and the simple ideas also indicate the beauty of simplicity, Jiang Xiaojuan is very pleased with the trust of the parents, she feels that as a people's policeman, it is her obligation and responsibility to help the masses, and she is even more grateful that she can help such a large group of children.
After the report, Jiang Xiaojuan's feeding 9 babies in the disaster area was known to the people of the whole country, and Jiang Xiaojuan's feeding the children was also released, does this mean that her privacy was given to the public.
The answer, of course, is no! Breastfeeding children is an innate skill of the female body, and it is a manifestation of the mother's responsibility and love, and we cannot deny this behavior.
Mothers feeding their children is an expression of maternal love, and should not be labeled as semanticly inappropriate words, no one can criticize their behavior, what we need to do is respect.
Jiang Xiaojuan breastfeeds 9 babies, and the matter of breastfeeding alone is no different from when mothers feed their children in our daily life, and even Jiang Xiaojuan is directly fed in the disaster area, without private space, everyone did not deliberately **, giving Jiang Xiaojuan the most basic respect, so can we achieve the same understanding and care in our daily life.
Some people may think that Jiang Xiaojuan is saving the child in a dangerous situation, and no one dares to question it, plus Jiang Xiaojuan herself is a policeman, and some people with bad intentions dare not do anything. In daily life, women encounter too many injustices when breastfeeding, and privacy is the most serious.
When you become a mother, you should not be ashamed of your privacy and dignity, no matter where or how you choose to breastfeed.
Jiang Xiaojuan was breastfeeding in the disaster area because the way the public looked at her and gave her the most basic respect, and it was an honor for her to rescue 9 children. If we put the same respect and care on the mothers in our lives, and guide the eyes of the masses correctly, then breastfeeding will no longer be alienated as uncivilized behavior.
Jiang Xiaojuan breastfeeding young babies told us that breastfeeding mothers should be proud of themselves, breastfeeding is the most natural way for mothers to feed their children, only mothers have special permissions, assuming that Jiang Xiaojuan is not a mother, then at that time the babies can only continue to cry and cause the body to be weaker and more dangerous.
The gentle strength unique to women also supports a part of hope, and as long as there is infinite respect and love, no matter what kind of difficulties will be solved.
After the rescue operation was finally over, Jiang Xiaojuan returned home to see her son Doudou, because Doudou had grown up a little longer after being separated, Jiang Xiaojuan looked at Doudou, who had grown a little longer than before she left, and tears appeared in the corners of her eyes.
And Jiang Xiaojuan's mother-in-law has no complaints about her daughter-in-law's absence at home, she knows that her daughter-in-law is rushing to the front line to rescue, and said: ".The daughter-in-law's job is to serve the people, and she must be unconditionally supported”。Without the understanding of her family, Jiang Xiaojuan would not be able to participate in the rescue activities without distractions. I believe that even if the same choice is placed in front of Jiang Xiaojuan and asked her to choose again, she will still participate in the rescue and save those children.
Jiang Xiaojuan was awarded the Special Award for the Most Caring Chinese Woman, and was awarded the second-class hero and other honors. In order to commend Jiang Xiaojuan, the Jiangyou City Public Security Bureau also promoted her to a member of the Party Committee and deputy political commissar of the Jiangyou City Public Security Bureau. For Jiang Xiaojuan, this promotion is not only a recognition of her, but also her determination to serve the people in the future.
On July 3, 2008, Jiang Xiaojuan gave a speech in the Great Hall of the People in Henan Province with her own personal experience, entitled "I am a mother to the children in the disaster area", and the content of the speech told Jiang Xiaojuan what she saw and heard when she came, and how she felt extremely worried when she saw the children who were crying because of the disaster.
During the speech, the emotional outpouring between the words infected everyone present, and the continuous praise and awards and titles came one after another, but it was also accompanied by some doubts.
Questioning voices believe that there are too many heroes in **, and even those who sacrificed for rescue are also there, why can Jiang Xiaojuan be promoted and promoted. Just feeding a young baby doesn't need to be so fanfare, if so, then it is possible to move things and carry a stretcher during the rescue process.
Is it a disadvantaged group for women, the disparity in power between men and women, coupled with thousands of years of psychological cues, has led to women indeed being in a disadvantaged position, and inherent notions have weakened women's abilities. Women can also assist those who are hurt when disaster strikes. In the face of disaster relief posts, regardless of gender, as long as they have contributions, they all deserve to be commended.
The leaders of the Public Security Bureau believe thatJiang Xiaojuan used her unique ability to help young babies in the face of disasters, and for Jiang Xiaojuan, she dedicated her all to rescue, giving whatever she wanted. Such a rescue is of great significance
But this explanation alone still can't calm the dissatisfaction of some people, some people even put Jiang Xiaojuan's **number** on the Internet in order to vent their dissatisfaction, there are malicious people and pranksters, for a while, Jiang Xiaojuan's ** voice has hardly been broken.
This kind of pressure made Jiang Xiaojuan unable to resist, and her participation in the rescue also caused the public's dissatisfaction, which was undoubtedly a big blow to her, and some people advised her not to care, but the power of ** is very powerful.
Jiang Xiaojuan constantly forced herself to adjust her mentality, this is true of life and work, people are independent individuals, you can't be satisfied with everyone, and you can't control their thoughts, only through actions can you make those gradually close the door to doubt.
Since then, Jiang Xiaojuan has participated in counseling and psychological counseling, and at the same time has worked diligently and adhered to the purpose of serving the people. In the new position, work with humility and be responsible and serious in the face of every task. Let yourself be like when I was breastfeeding in the disaster area, I don't care about the eyes of others, and only by doing it right can I dissteam the distrust of others.
As time went by, Jiang Xiaojuan continued to maintain her seriousness in her work as if she was promoted on the first day, and became the squadron red flag bearer many times.
On August 17, 2008, with the help of the Chenjiaba Police Station, Jiang Xiaojuan found the four children she had been raised, visited them and also transferred gifts from well-wishers to their parents.
For a long time after that, the parents of the children were still thinking about Jiang Xiaojuan, and Jiang Xiaojuan also continued to pay attention to the children's learning.
In 2020, the epidemic broke out and lasted for a long time, spreading fast, the danger was high, and the whole city was closed.
In life, we will encounter a lot of doubts and difficulties, as long as we stick to our own principles and do things seriously, not afraid of the bad evaluation of others, and turn grief and anger into motivation, rumors will definitely be broken.