In this fast-moving society, education has always been one of the focal points of attention. Especially those who were brought up as children by repressive education are now parents. They've been through heart-wrenching parenting, and now they don't want their children to go through the same pain. They understand the importance of protecting their child's self-esteem and self-confidence.
When I was a child, there was a girl who didn't do well in the exam, and when she came home, her mother didn't blame her, but encouraged her and brought her her favorite desserts. Although this detail is simple, it exudes the warmth of maternal love. The mother's understanding and encouragement made the girl feel supported by her family and have more motivation to face difficulties and challenges.
Another little boy was second to last in the exam this time, and his father did not blame him, but said with relief: "Last time I was the first to last, this time I improved!."Next time, will you get another one?Come on!This way of affirming and motivating makes the child feel that his progress is recognized, and he not only achieves better grades, but also builds self-confidence and motivation to learn.
There was also a little girl who wanted to help her mother move the cart from the stall, but she sprinkled pots and pans, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar on the ground. The little girl apologized to her mother, but instead of blaming her, she touched her head and comforted her. This reaction made the little girl understand that even if she made a mistake, her family still cared about her and not blamed her for a small mistake.
There was also a little boy who scored 64 points in the test, and he happily told his mother, who gave him a reward. A few weeks later, he got an even better score, scoring 88 points. This kind of encouragement and reward gives children more motivation and self-confidence to pursue better grades.
These short stories reflect the understanding, encouragement and support of parents for their children, and they respect their children's efforts and individuality, and do not carry out oppressive education for their children. People in the comment section have said that people who were subjected to repressive education when they were children grow up to know how to protect their children's self-esteem and self-confidence. Most of my generation grew up in this way, so we know what it's like to be recognized and seen.
A social survey showed that up to 906% of young people have received a shocking education from their parents, 59Seven per cent of young people believe that this education leads to a lack of self-confidence and self-denial. Children who have grown up in repression for a long time may have an inferiority complex for the rest of their lives. However, we need to understand that these repressive evaluations are not necessarily accurate or objective. We don't need to live in other people's evaluations all the time, but we need to establish our own evaluation system and cultivate our own self-confidence and independent thinking ability. As a result, today's parents, especially those who were subjected to repressive education as children, pay more attention to developing their children's self-esteem and self-confidence. They believe that only in an environment of love and respect can a child develop a healthy personality and a positive mindset.
This kind of education is not only beneficial to the development of children, but also promotes family harmony and the cultivation of parent-child relationship. Compared with repressive education, encouragement and support can stimulate children's potential and creativity. Helping children develop a positive self-evaluation and develop their self-confidence and independent thinking skills are aspects that need to be paid attention to in modern education.
Therefore, despite the rapid development of modern society, we must always pay attention to the issue of education, especially the education of children. After all, children are our future, and they need to be fully cared for and educated in order to grow into valuable individuals and contribute to the development of society.