After 70, Ben Five. I have studied, worked, started a business, succeeded, failed, had children, had a family, had quarrels, but fortunately there was no divorce.
My suggestion is:
First, maintaining good health is the most important thing.
Try to maintain a good routine and rest habits, don't pay too much attention to the physical examination, but more about the pleasure of the body.
Second, don't rush to make money.
Don't be in a hurry to make money, when you haven't mastered the password to make money, no matter how anxious you are, you won't be able to make money.
When you have all the resources and conditions to make money, the money will take the initiative to find you.
Third, family members are more important than friends.
When you encounter failures or problems, you will understand that only family members are the ones who really care about you.
Friends, many times, are just a pleasure. No matter how good a friend is, he won't help you, only family members have this possibility.
Fourth, friends lie in the essence rather than the many.
Don't take the illusion that you have many friends, because when you have a good day, you will have a lot of friends, so you will waste a lot of time on friends. When you're forty years old, you'll spend the same amount of time slowly regretting it.
There are only a few friends who can really help you, and some of them may not have it in their lives. There will definitely not be a scene where friends are enthusiastic and rush to get on it.
Fifth, a career is actually just a job, and that's it.
Your so-called career, in fact, is just a job.
Many times, in order to earn money to support your family, there is no career more important than your health and family. What you think is the most important career, when you fail, or are abandoned and abandoned, you will find that the career has left you and turned as usual.
Sixth, children are your biggest career.
If there must be a career, in fact, the biggest career is the process of raising children.
However, on the premise of respecting your child's love and liking, don't impose your unfinished ideals or hobbies on your child.
The best career is to turn your passion into a career or a job.
Seventh, marriage is a mutual compromise and understanding.
Mortal marriages are always bumpy, and it is not until a few years later that you will find out that, in fact, the people who have been with you the longest in your life are not parents, children, siblings, or friends and classmates, but the other half of the marriage.
Without mutual compromise and understanding, most people will not have a happy life.
Eighth, continuous learning.
If I had to leave a selfish hobby, I would like it to be learning. Or the ability to learn continuously.
The only constant in this world is that it is always changing, and if you don't want to be eliminated, and you still want to set an example of learning in front of your children, then you have to learn.
Continuous learning is the only way to master the password to make money or wealth.
The older you get, the more you have to insist on this!