In traditional Chinese wedding customs, wedding trouble is a long-standing festive activity, intended to add laughter and joy to the couple's big day.
This custom originated in ancient times, and there was a saying that "happy new house" refers to the fact that relatives and friends go to the couple's residence after the wedding banquet to amuse the couple through various jokes and pranks, so as to test the wit and patience of the couple, and also symbolize good wishes for the new life of the couple.
As the saying goes: "Marriage is not noisy, not lively", reflecting the general recognition and popularity of marriage troubles among the people.
However, with the evolution of the times, the form and content of marriage troubles are also changing. Modern wedding troubles tend to be more creative and entertaining, and young people tend to incorporate more fresh elements to make weddings more personal and fun.
But at the same time, there are also some overly radical and dangerous marital troubles, which often ignore the feelings of the couple and the solemnity of the wedding, and even go against the original intention of the marriage.
Under different cognitions and values, the practice of marriage troubles also shows diversity. Some people stick to the tradition and consider marriage troubles to be an indispensable part of the process, believing that "no trouble, no joy" is regarded as a blessing to the couple and a kind of participation in the wedding.
Others believe that marriage troubles should be moderate, emphasizing respect for the wishes of the newlyweds, advocating that "many people are not strange", and emphasizing the sacredness and solemnity of weddings.
In this unfortunate incident in Guizhou, the potential risk of marriage troubles has become a reality. A man reportedly drove a car to intercept a wedding car while trying to celebrate a friend's wedding in an extreme way, resulting in a serious car accident.
This man, who is a friend of the groom, not only broke the joy of the wedding, but also caused deep pain to the person and his family.
At the time of the incident, the groom's friend tried to intercept the wedding car, a common method of marriage trouble, as a way to express their blessings to the couple and their participation in the wedding.
However, this behavior is undoubtedly a blatant challenge to the rules of the road and a gross disregard for the safety of others. It can be seen that behind the happy celebrations, sometimes there are desperate adventures.
When analyzing the behavior of the participants, it is not difficult to find that the attribution of responsibility is not simple. Indeed, the man who intercepted the marital car bears the main responsibility, since his actions directly led to the accident.
However, we also need to think about what cultural background and social perception drove him to make such a decision. Is he also a victim of the adage that "the more you make trouble, the more you are happy"?
In addition, this incident also reflects the problems in the society's awareness and implementation of marriage customs.
On the one hand, the couple and wedding banquet participants may have expectations for the intensity of the marriage trouble, and on the other hand, there is a lack of consensus and supervision on the boundaries of the marriage scene. When celebration turns into tragedy, one wonders, "Have we forgotten the purpose of the wedding?" ”
This tragedy caused by marital troubles has left an indelible imprint on the lives of both the couple and the participants. The wedding should be the happiest moment of life, but for the couple, the wedding scene, which should be filled with laughter, is forever shrouded in the shadow of accidents.
Participants will also be burdened with a sense of guilt for their reckless actions, a psychological burden that can become a lifelong remorse. As the saying goes, "A moment of laughter, a lifetime of regret".
As a result of this incident, there was a heated debate about the society's perception of the marriage customs. Some people began to call for the need to pay attention to the principles and bottom lines behind traditional customs, advocating "doing good deeds and accumulating virtues, and not making troubles at weddings".
Others believe that the custom of marriage is not harmful in itself, but that the key lies in the scale and manner in which it is implemented. The general public** tends to place more emphasis on the solemnity and safety of wedding ceremonies while respecting traditions.
In order to balance tradition and security, a number of proposals have been put forward from all walks of life. First of all, it is necessary to strengthen the modern education of wedding customs, so that people can understand the true meaning of wedding: not only the union of two people, but also the harmony of two families and the blessing of society.
Second, the relevant departments can issue specific regulations to clearly define the reasonable scope of wedding activities, such as "moderate joy and civilized affairs", and use laws and rules to draw safety red lines for wedding celebrations.
Finally, strengthen social monitoring mechanisms and encourage the public to report radical and dangerous marital troubles, so as to purify the wedding culture and ensure that every wedding is a symbol of safety, dignity and happiness.