Everyone has their own bottom line, and when the bottom line is touched, even a gentle person can become hot. In this article, we will describe some situations in which the problem was originally solved, but the behavior of others turned into a persuasive situation. These stories show people's attitudes and practices in the face of conflict. Everyone has their own yardstick between protecting their own interests and the interests of others.
One day, my daughter was playing when suddenly a little boy came over and pushed her to the ground. Before I could get angry, the little boy's mother flew up and kicked him. I was shocked by this scene, and I immediately realized that things could get more complicated. I did my best to calm their quarrels and exhort them to be tolerant and respectful of each other. I told the little boy and his mom that violence is not the solution to the problem and that we should resolve the dispute in a peaceful way.
When my daughter was about three years old, she accidentally hit a little girl. I immediately rushed to apologize to the little girl and her mom and asked my daughter to apologize to her as well. The little girl's mother responded very tolerantly that it was just an accident, it didn't matter, let's continue playing. I was touched by this tolerant and understanding attitude.
In the children's playground, I witnessed a little boy suddenly running over and knocking down a little girl. Before the little girl's father could get angry, the little boy's father rushed over and kicked him over and hit him hard. The little boy cried very badly, and the little girl's father quickly pulled them away, saying that it was okay, it didn't matter, don't hit the child, while protecting the little boy.
My son was playing outside when he was once met by a little brother who accidentally dragged him down. I didn't wait for my little brother's grandmother to speak, but just picked up my son's collar, spun around a few times, and asked him:"Are you comfortable? Why drag people? "He was then asked to apologize to his little brother. The little brother's grandmother also realized her grandson's mistake, and a group of people persuaded the little boy to finally apologize.
When my daughter was three years old, she was bitten by a little boy while playing marbles, and her hands were purple in their bites. I hurried to turn on the power of the wilderness, but was stopped by the little boy's mother, who unceremoniously slapped the little boy twice and abused him. I realized that things were out of control and tried my best to persuade her to stop scolding.
The above stories reveal the different reactions and attitudes of people in the face of conflict. Whether as parents, parents, or ordinary observers, we should remain calm and rational when dealing with conflicts. By understanding and respecting others, listening to each other's needs, and seeking solutions in conflicts. At the same time, we should also recognize that everyone has their own bottom line and measurement, and we should respect the bottom line of others and communicate with each other and solve problems in an equal and peaceful way. Only in this way can we establish harmonyRelationshipsTogether, create a friendly and tolerant oneSocial