Today, I was sitting on the way back to my parents' house, my husband was driving, and there were me, my one-year-old daughter, and my father-in-law and mother-in-law in the car.
My husband complained to my mother-in-law while driving: "I went to my mother-in-law's house to accompany them for the New Year, what are you going to do with me?"The father-in-law was silent, and the mother-in-law rolled her eyes: "I went to see my sister, what's wrong?."I won't go in vain, I will eat and drink with me, and I won't trouble them. The hotel is also booked, just to make a lively ......"I hugged my daughter and watched them fight with each other, and I felt happy in my heart.
I am from Henan, and I met my husband when I was working in Shanghai. We are the same age, have similar hobbies, and unconsciously enter each other's lives. My mother was very unhappy when she found out about it, and hoped that I could find a local, worried that I would be wronged by marrying far away from home. But I firmly believe that distance is not an issue, I love Li Kailin, he only loves me, and we will not be separated whether my parents agree or not.
My dad proposed to let my husband settle in Henan, and I was shocked, but my dad firmly believed that true love and distance are not an obstacle. I told my husband, and he was silent for a while, with red eyes, and said, "I don't want to separate, but this is too big, I have to go home and discuss." "I was worried that our relationship would be affected by this.
However, the husband came back with his parents. The mother-in-law took my hand and said, "I heard Kailin talk about you, and he said that you are a good boy, and he will not marry anyone but you." He cried and asked me if I could make my home with you. I didn't take it seriously, where home was, where he was. Not to mention that An is in Henan, even in the United States, he is also my son'......”
I was embarrassed by the deep understanding of the mother-in-law-to-be, and I understood the heart of her parents. She wanted me to persuade my parents, and I said I would. She said that it is not easy for a woman to be both a wife and a mother, a daughter and a daughter-in-law, and she needs more understanding and support.
Eventually, I took my husband and in-laws home, and for the sake of each other's happiness, we faced the future together.
My mom and dad were very embarrassed by their sudden visit. They didn't expect that I would cut it first and then play it, and they didn't expect my mother-in-law to not object to their request.
The mother-in-law said frankly: "I can also see that the two children do like each other. As long as you agree to anything, I will give it. Let them settle in Henan?Okay, if they want to buy a house there, I'll pay for ......it right away”
My dad was stunned: "You are just this one son, are you willing to do it?" ”
My son is married to your daughter, and he is not sold to your family, what is this reluctant? As long as the young couple is happy, when I get old, I will go to them......”
My dad just wanted us to retreat, but my mother-in-law didn't follow his calculations, she just said that we didn't care, we could settle our homes wherever we liked. "As long as your life is going well, you can do whatever you want......”
Although the mother-in-law's family is in the countryside, it has been incorporated into the new community and has its own land and industrial park. Both in-laws work in the industrial park and have a stable income. When we got married, my father-in-law advised us whether we should continue to work outside the home or go back to our hometown to develop. We chose to go home, and my in-laws were generous and supportive, even buying us an RV. For convenience, my in-laws moved out and moved in with us.
My mother-in-law not only takes care of the children but also supports us financially. Although I was reluctant to accept it, my father-in-law insisted: "The money you earn is for you to spend." "He only kept a small part of his monthly salary, and most of it went to me.
During my pregnancy, my parents couldn't come over and I missed it so much. My mother-in-law understood my emotions and not only sent me gifts, but also promised to let me stay longer after the birth of the child. She even accompanied me back to my parents' house for half a month, which was approved by my mother.
Every year during the Chinese New Year, I miss my parents. My dad wanted us to spend the holidays with them, and I was worried that my in-laws would be lonely. But the mother-in-law didn't care: "365 days a year, you have to stay with us for 350 days." "I was touched by her open-mindedness. In the end, we decided to celebrate the New Year with our parents, and my mother-in-law was willing to accompany us and even took the initiative to arrange accommodation.
This kind of family harmony makes me feel very happy.