In 1949, when Ma Hongkui escaped, he abandoned the girl as a burden

Mondo History Updated on 2024-02-13

year, when Ma Hongkui escaped, he abandoned the girl as a burden.

In the old society, patriarchal attitudes were widespread, including in Ningxia warlord Ma Hongkui. When he fled Ningxia in 1949, he chose to take his two sons with him, leaving behind his daughter.

He thinks that the daughter he marries is just a spilled water, and he doesn't need to worry about it anymore. What he didn't expect, however, was that his daughter, who stayed in the northwest, would have a better life than his son who had brought him to Taiwan and the United States.

This fact tells us that women can also be independent and have their own happy lives without having to rely on men.

Ma Hongkui has three sons and one daughter, all of whom were born to his original wife Ma Baifang, and he married a total of six aunts, but except for Ma Baifang, the others had no children with him.

The third aunt Taikang Xiaoyun had a daughter with her ex-husband before marrying Ma Hongkui, but this daughter was adopted as an adopted daughter by the mother of the fourth aunt Liu Muxia and did not live in the Ma family.

Except for Kang Xiaoyun, who was married before marrying Ma Hongkui, the other five aunts and wives were all married to Ma Hongkui for the first time, so Ma Hongkui's children only have three sons and one daughter: the eldest son Ma Dunhou, the second son Ma Dunjing, the third son Ma Dunren, and the daughter Ma Yinlian.

Before Ma Hongkui escaped from Yinchuan, he not only fled from himself, but also left behind the "female baby" at home. This granddaughter's name is Ma Ninglian, the daughter of Ma Dunjing, married to Ma Buqing's son.

It is rumored that Ma Ninglian once lived in Lanzhou, but no information has been left about her life. Kang Xiaoyun, who sent her to Lanzhou, also failed to return to Ningxia. Ma Hongkui's family "dumped" her in a panic.

History is always full of irony. Ma Hongkui fled with his eldest son, but handed over the military and political power of Ningxia to his son, but his son also ran away. In his later years, Ma Hongkui relied on his great-granddaughter for his life, but because his great-granddaughter was unwilling to accompany him, he had to fight a lawsuit with his son.

Eventually, he lost the case and became a loner. However, his great-granddaughter eventually chose to stay, bringing him the comfort of family affection. And his daughter is living a good life.

These things make people think deeply: ideology has an important impact on the direction of a person or society. Although Ma Hongkui is known as a "slippery horse", he is still bound by backward ideas.

The preference for sons over daughters is only one of the concrete manifestations of his backward thinking.

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