In the family, it is common to hear the urging voices of old mothers: "Hurry up!" "It's hard to do anything! What are you waiting for? "Can you hurry up! ”…
These old mothers all have a common problem - their children's procrastination.
Procrastination has a great negative impact on learning and doing things, no wonder old mothers are in a hurry, in the face of procrastination children, they unconsciously raise their voices, expecting to be able to solve the problem of children's procrastination in three times and two by two, but the children seem to be unable to appreciate the good intentions of mothers, and still do their own thing.
The possible consequences of procrastination
will take a hit
Each of us will have a range of tolerance in our hearts, and when we push everything back, we will be hit by life, and we will slowly lose interest and confidence in life, and even have a psychology of disgust with ourselves and the world.
Affects mood and disrupts teamwork and relationships
Procrastination can affect personal emotions, making people mentally negative and slack, making it difficult to be interested in affairs or interested in cultivating and feeling to the fullest. This can affect a team's ability to work together and relationships.
Teach your child to watch the time and let him set a time for himself
Children's lack of time concept is a headache, because without time concept, they will always do what they like according to their own mood, and care about other things.
For example, if a child likes math, he will spend more time on math. If you are not very interested in the language, you will not spend much time studying, and in this case, the child will naturally be prone to bias.
Or the child likes to play, can play any way, and is willing to spend a lot of time playing, relatively speaking, there is less time for reading and writing. At present, children are mainly focused on learning, so it is natural to spend more time on learning is the best arrangement.
Gamified training + competition incentives
Children's time management training should be combined with interesting games to make children feel the fun of training. For example, when letting your child practice dressing, you can make an appointment to time it and see how many clothes can be worn in 5 minutes. In this way, under the time constraints, the child will be able to concentrate on learning and practicing.
Tell him to do his own thing
Many parents feel that they don't have enough time because of his grinding, so they help their children do things that should be their own. This situation is not good, and in the long run, the child will take it for granted that it is not his own business. If you don't help him do it one day, he will definitely put it off until the last second.
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning methods, the stronger their children's learning advantages will be.
I would like to share with you a set of books that teach children to learn time management, "Watch at School" series.
This set of 8 books is suitable for children in lower grades, and corresponds to key issues in children's learning, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.
Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
This set of extracurricular reading materials imported from South Korea can help children quickly adapt to school life, develop good study habits, and develop good time management habits from an early age.
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