Xiao Ming's mother has always had a lot of headaches, and every time she goes to kindergarten, it almost becomes a "tug-of-war" between mother and child.
As long as you don't ask your son to go to kindergarten, it is a beautiful picture of "mother's love and filial piety".
On Monday, the mother urged Xiao Ming to get up and wash as usual, but the child was still reluctant, even if he barely got up, he couldn't get interested in anything.
Finally, when I went out, I was even more grinding to change my shoes at the entrance, saying that I had a headache for a while, and that my stomach was uncomfortable for a while, in short, I didn't want to go to kindergarten.
Reason No. 1: Hopelessness
Hopelessness is the child's loss of interest in learning Xi. I spent a lot of time in school for a day, but the results were not good, I was not praised by the teacher, and I did not complete enough homework.
When he gets home, he still has to do his homework, and the child has resistance in his heart, and because of the resistance, he procrastinates to do it.
The second reason: fatigue
After a day of Xi at school, the child may be physically exhausted, and when he comes home, he may want to rest more than do his homework according to his parents' expectations. Children who are too tired will use friction to buy themselves time to rest.
Reason 3: No
The better the grades, the more active the child is in writing homework, and the worse the grades, the more reluctant he is because the homework is too difficult and he will not. In order not to face the embarrassment of not being able to do homework, in order to avoid the mother's roar, the child will use excuses to procrastinate.
The following three methods are worth learning from.
Help your child make plans
How to make children's learning Xi not boring, learning to arrange time reasonably is the most important, so parents should help their children make daily and weekly plans.
Even if you don't need to follow an accurate daily plan, it can give your child a general sense of direction.
For example, divide the weekend's homework into Friday evenings and weeks.
6. Three days a week, not one day.
Let your child know the consequences
The lower the cost of making mistakes, the more often they make mistakes, parents should let their children know the consequences of procrastination, only let their children really get a lesson, they will be careful to correct. If the child procrastinates in doing homework, parents can refuse to sign the child's homework, and the next day the child goes to school and explains the specific situation to the teacher, and let the teacher decide what kind of punishment to do.
Children have procrastination, parents can not let it go, if procrastination becomes a Xi, the impact on the child's life is huge, parents should seriously observe the reasons for the child's procrastination, and then change the problem of procrastination from the root, parents should be fully psychologically prepared, changing the child's Xi is a very difficult thing, but for the child's future consideration, as a parent has the responsibility and obligation to help the child grow better.
Be a good example for your children in your daily life
Many parents just blindly blame their children for being inefficient, but never reflect on themselves. In fact, sometimes this is their own way of doing things, projected on the child.
If you really record a day in the life of a parent, you will find that the child is completely a replica of himself.
If adults do things loosely and irregularly in life, children who have lived in such an environment for a long time will also develop such Xi, do things abrasively, have no concept of time, and will not make reasonable plans.
If you want to completely change your child, parents should correct their own behavior, let the child see their determination to change, and then if they really change something, they should share it with their children in time, so that they can understand that these behaviors can be changed.
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning Xi methods, the stronger the child's Xi in learning.
I would like to share with you a set of books that teach children to learn time management, "Watch at School" series.
This set of 8 books is suitable for children in the lower grades, and corresponds to the key issues in children's learning Xi, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.
Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
This set of extracurricular reading materials imported from South Korea can help children quickly adapt to school life, cultivate good XiXi learning habits, and develop good time management Xi habits from an early age.