Human nature really can't stand the test!
Half a year ago, I swore that I danced for the sake of dancing, and the purpose was pure. Because I didn't have a dance partner at that time, I would dance with whoever invited me, and I had a lot of fun! The music is not played all night, and the mood is good** and the effect is good, so I have a lot of opinions about those who have a regular dance partner. After all, most people still focus on fitness, and how boring and boring it is to dance with only one person all night!
Looking at those regular dance partners, some of them can't dance a few songs in one night, and even when they dance, they feel absent-minded. I wondered if dancing like that would really be a good exercise. Finding a dance partner doesn't feel as happy as I am.
There are actually two purposes of ballroom dancing, one is friendship, that is, exchanging friendships and being friends with each other; The other is dancing. Dancing without being friends, or being friends without dancing, is not ballroom dancing in the full sense of the word. Many people dance for the time being before they meet a suitable dance partner, and when the time is ripe to meet someone who is destined, they will have an extra friend to make friends with because of dancing, which is a perfect end to their ballroom dancing career and the most perfect interpretation of ballroom dancing (except for those who destroy their families by dancing to find a lover).
Except for a few who are too bad, everyone jumps. At that time, the relationship with the dancers was not far and close, and there was no one who could really get into the heart. Dancing in one night, dragonflies change five or six people, or even more. Different styles, different personalities, too many differences, it is impossible to know too deeply. Because I really don't have the energy and it's not necessary, I dance a few more songs if I feel good, and I change people when I feel bad. There is no problem of offending people, and there is no need to work hard to run in with anyone, in short, I dance freely, but there is no sense of belonging. I am like a duckweed, floating to **count**. Except for burning some fat and sweating a little overnight, there is basically no emotional communication. If the dance lacks emotion, it will lose a lot of charm when dancing. For people who demand perfection in dancing, it's really better not to dance.
With my own dance partner, I realized: ballroom dancing was for dancing before I met the person I liked, and it was definitely for people after I met him. No rebuttal accepted!
For dance partners, it must be for dancing at first, because I don't feel like dancing with each other, and I can't be a dance partner if I don't recognize each other. Every day, I start dancing as soon as I arrive at the dance hall, and after a long time, I feel that each other is my own person. Slowly, people become more and more selfish. Seeing a dance partner dancing with someone else will make you angry and jealous, and of course, you will immediately reconcile through timely communication. It's really like a couple, there is no overnight feud between husband and wife.
With a dance partner, the other party has to go**, although it is very troublesome and inconvenient, but after all, there is a sense of belonging. Just like a team, although it is not free, it feels very united, very confident, and no matter what kind of occasion it is, the heart is very down-to-earth, which is a sense of superiority that some people who dance can not experience.
Although having a dance partner doesn't necessarily mean how good you are, at least it proves that you're not fighting alone. Sometimes dancing in the dance hall and feeling isolated is really bad. I also hate to be on the dance floor in front of the men's critical stares. With a dance partner, the heart is determined and happy, and the pride is indescribable. If you have a good dance partner, this feeling will be even stronger.
Whether dancing is for the sake of the dance itself, or finally for people, the ultimate goal is to make one's life more fulfilling, beautiful, happy and joyful. The happiness between husband and wife and the happiness between dance partners are the wealth of life, complementing each other and making up for each other, which is a 1+1 2 relationship; We must not tear each other down and drag each other down, so that it will end up being 1+1=0 and ending in tragedy.
**10,000 fans incentive plan When you meet the right person in the dance field, saying a thousand things and 10,000 is just a relationship between dancers. Happiness outside of family life is to gain more happiness, doubling happiness will make you feel refreshed, and a virtuous cycle will also allow you to run your family with a more perfect mindset.
Finally, I wish all the dancers a happy and satisfying life!