The 50-year-old man went on a blind date with the 53-year-old eldest sister, and the two met and talked, and the woman asked him to find it
Brother Sun, a bricklayer living in the countryside, is over half a hundred years old but still single. His life seems to be comfortable, with his own house and underfloor heating, but his singleness has attracted curiosity and discussion from the neighborhood.
Neighbors praised him for his ability and kindness, but wondered why he was still unmarried.
The matchmaker curiously asked him why he had not been able to start a family with such excellent conditions.
Brother Sun said frankly that his father died early when he was young, and his brother was married. He had two relationships, one that didn't move him, and the other, although he wanted to, fell through because he couldn't pay the bride price.
The bride price was 10,000 yuan, which was not a small amount for a rural family at that time.
As he grew older, he was gradually forgotten by society and devoted himself to learning the art of bricklayering. This craft has allowed him to live a better life and maintain his basic livelihood despite the unstable income.
Brother Sun admitted frankly that he can earn 5505 a day, but this is not every day. Sometimes, there is work for two or three months in a row;Sometimes, it's a month of doing nothing.
In the countryside, Brother Sun has been engaged in the work of growing corn, and then looking for other jobs in his free time. He felt that it was safer and more reliable.
Brother Sun is a down-to-earth person who lives a down-to-earth life and never feels that there is anything wrong.
The matchmaker asked Brother Sun about his expectations for the other half, and he said that it was important to be similar in age, and hoped that the other party would not exceed the range of his three years old, so that they could better understand each other. He doesn't have too many requirements for the other's place of residence, as long as the two parties get along with each other.
Soon, the matchmaker found Wang and felt that she was a good match for Brother Sun. Wang is 53 years old, has a 33-square-meter house, is single, and has an economic income and social security of 2,500 yuan per month. She also has no children like Brother Sun, so she doesn't have too many burdens.
The matchmaker learned that Wang wanted to find a partner who lived a simple life, and the focus was on good character, being good to her, and not having too many burdens. As long as these conditions are met, you will be fine.
Subsequently, the matchmaker arranged for the two to meet to understand the situation.
After Wang saw Brother Sun, he was very curious about everything about him, and he didn't stop talking about it.
She asked her about the house, and he explained that the house in the countryside was mainly used for living, and it was unlikely that anyone would buy it, so it would not sell for much.
Wang looked around and asked about life in winter, and Brother Sun told her that their home was equipped with floor heating, so they didn't feel particularly cold in winter.
Then, Wang asked about Brother Sun's work and lifestyle, and Brother Sun confessed that he was a bricklayer and would find other jobs after planting crops.
After hearing this, Wang smiled and said that she and the bricklayer were really fateful, which made Brother Sun feel a little overwhelmed.
Wang mentioned that a relative once introduced a bricklayer to her, but her parents thought that the job was not stable enough and that there might be times when there was no income. Moreover, Wang himself was not particularly interested in this bricklayer, so in the end, this introduction was not completed.
Brother Sun tried to defend himself, saying that the income of bricklayers was related to the level of skill, and that people with good skills like him could easily find a job, and would not be as unstable as Wang described.
Wang asked Brother Sun how much money he could earn a day, and Brother Sun replied that it was 550 yuan, and then she asked how much she could earn in a month, and Brother Sun said that the average was about 5,000 yuan.
Hearing this figure, Wang seemed to be satisfied with Brother Sun's income.
She then asked Brother Sun curiously, why can't a tall person with an annual income of 70,000 or 80,000 yuan from growing crops not find a wife at the age of 50?
Brother Sun repeated the reason he had discussed with the matchmaker before, mentioning the issue of his father's early death and the other party's request for a bride price. As a result, he said he missed out on some opportunities.
Wang said that in the final analysis, the conditions are not allowed!
Although Wang seemed to only care about himself and said it cheerfully, he didn't notice that Brother Sun had already signaled to the matchmaker.
The matchmaker asked Brother Sun privately, wondering why he kept glancing at her. Brother Sun admitted frankly that he felt that Wang was too talkative, and he couldn't stop talking as soon as he opened it, which was uncomfortable.
Brother Sun lamented that he had never seen such a woman, she was not tall, but she had a lot of thoughts, and said that Wang was not young anymore, etc., which obviously showed his displeasure.
On another occasion, when the two of them sat down to chat, Brother Sun mentioned again that he felt that Wang looked older than his actual age, ** was not fair enough, and his hair was a lot whiter.
Wang shrugged and said that she doesn't like to spend a lot of time on dressing up like other women, and her main goal is to work and earn money. She describes her busy work life, participating in multiple work groups, distributing flyers, working part-time, and sometimes helping people to make up the numbers. She even said that sometimes she didn't have time to wash her face when she came on a blind date.
She explained why her hair was white, but Brother Sun didn't care, he thought that dyeing her hair black would make it gray again, so there was no point in dyeing her hair.
No matter how Wang explained, Brother Sun didn't have a good impression of her.
Wang was also angry, and she told Brother Sun to slowly find a young woman who met his requirements. Brother Sun shook her hand and said goodbye, but Wang said that there was no need to shake hands, and directly said goodbye and left.
In this way, the blind date between the two ended in failure.
Wang and Brother Sun met, but Wang's straightforwardness made Brother Sun feel unhappy, he felt that Wang was short, talked a lot, and looked old. Although Wang explained her living situation, Brother Sun still didn't have a good impression of her overall.
Wang also felt uncomfortable because of this, and directly suggested that Brother Sun find a young woman who better met his requirements, and then left.
Personal evaluation: Although Wang is hard-working and in good shape, her straightforward personality may cause discomfort. And although Brother Sun is simple and suitable for life, he may lack some tolerance. Therefore, the reason why the two are single is obvious.