On February 14th, Valentine's Day, actors Zhong Chuxi and Hou Wenyuan respectively posted four group photos on social platforms, and posted a fitness session on ins, officially announcing their relationship. Some netizens said that Zhong Chuxi's vision has always been very good, and the boyfriends he chose are all handsome guys. 
Zhong Chuxi's Weibo "Dialogue**" in a 2022 article said,Nowadays, when people announce a new relationship, they do not quietly and quickly update their emotional status on Facebook, but softly post or hard post their relationship on social **. The web and platforms such as Instagram and Douyin allow people to post emotional nodes using a new visual language. Like Zhong Chuxi, only sending **, without text, and a more subtle official announcement is a soft release. Some couples are clasped hands**, or like Zendaya said that Dutch brother is "my Spider-Man", like Lopez and Ben Affleck release kiss**, it is a hard release. An October article in The Met said that Taylor Swift is no longer as secretive as she was when she was in a relationship with Joseph Matthew Alwyn, and that she seems to be dating the football player Travis Kelsey: watching his games one after another, shopping with his mom and driving his car. She has changed 12 boyfriends in 15 years, and now she has finally achieved positive results? An insider said that Taylor and Travis talk every day, and Taylor is really happy to get to know Travis. She likes him and thinks he is a very normal, kind-hearted person, down-to-earth and doesn't care about fame, and has a good figure. Another source said Travis was also smitten by Taylor. Taylor didn't want to take it anymore, and if it felt right, she would indulge in it. She decided not to hide it anymore, to be herself and enjoy life. 
The official announcement of the relationship shows that finding your other half is still a major event in life and an important milestone. "It still has cultural and social significance. There are many acceptable avenues when we narrate our lives, and romantic unions are a highly recognizable way, so it develops some visual formulas in social**. In her book Are We Dating Okay, Moira, a doctor of American literature, says that in the past, people didn't need to go to public places and didn't need to spend money to courtship, and the form of dating "brought courtship from the private sphere to the public, it shifted control over the courtship process, from the older generation to the younger generation, from the group to the individual." ”In order to successfully date and attract the opposite sex, you need to be naturally unpretentious, confident, and don't care if you are bent or not, and not give people the impression of indifference. 
Marriage Partners Rely on Lottery Selection" stillsPeople want their dating partners to be a good match in every way, thinking that "what you like is what kind of person you are." "Even the most trivial aesthetic choices can ultimately determine who will like you. In fact, "the preference for books and bands has not influenced courtship behavior since ancient times. The monkey does not praise its mate for liking the same type of banana as it. Adam didn't sneak up to Eve, filled her glass, and asked if she liked a certain band too. "People bless those who find true love," he saidIn a world where the future is uncertain, having a partner can also bring happiness and support, much like having a partner who recognizes each other. When two people are together, they feel safe and companion for each other. Even though we know it's not going to last long, it still feels grounded to have someone who cares about them and can create a little oasis. ”
Stills from "Single Men in Tokyo" Some people say that it is not easy for celebrities and rich people to find true love, "single and well-known people often have to be vigilant to protect themselves from those who are interested in their money or fame." Stars say finding a discreet potential date is difficult. Actress Ashley Green said that since becoming an actress, she has had difficulties with dating because she is often wary of other people's intentions. Time constraints are another reason why many high-profile people have a hard time finding a partnerI am too busy at work, I travel a lot, I can't see my partner often, and I am separated for six to seven months of the year. 
Notting Hill" stills "Show affection, die fast" has part of the truth, experts from Northwestern University in the United States said that some partners often show affection because they are insecure, "When two often confess their love, post the ** of having fun together and participating in romantic activities, this is to make others believe that their relationship is very happy and healthy, and it is also to deceive themselves into thinking that they are in a happy and happy relationship." Such a person can also be very narcissistic. Truly happy partners are too busy enjoying each other's company to post or even **, and will only post a set of pictures when they get home. There are also people who have a kind of "self-esteem conditioned by feelings" (RCSE), who only evaluate themselves according to their position in the relationship, and use social ** to show off their feelings and make others jealous. 
In fact, I don't care about you" stills have talked about falling in love many times and finally found true love, which is called "settled", otherwise it is still picking and choosing, is this a correct understanding of love? Moira said that in the American drama "Seinfeld", Seinfeld played a character who had 66 girlfriends before and after, and "the person you are dating is either becoming more and more important, or completely quitting." So, in "Seinfeld", one date after another came and went ......Now that marriage is no longer a necessary consequence of serious relationships, we can easily fit into the lives of people we don't intend to spend our lives with. We introduced them to their families, we went on vacation, we knew their friends and everything about their work, but we still couldn't make up our minds. We're swinging in and out of our relationship. ”
Spring Night" stills The traditional model of marriage and love is to go through a long list of partners until someone suddenly becomes that person, and then they become pairs. But love can come in many forms, and everyone can talk about their love generously"The love you're going to pursue is to open yourself up and merge your own life with other people's lives, and that strategy seems to only bring frustration. Love needs to be honest. The point of loving each other is to be changed by each other and to witness each other's changes. Love is not just a noun, it is a verb: it is not something you want to get, but a process ...... that needs to be translated into actionWomen must forget about the mindset they have learned in the past to neglect their own aspirations and well-being, and stop feeling too fat, too loud, too ambitious, and so on. ”