In the arena of love, everyone is the protagonist of their own story, but in some cases, we may unexpectedly become witnesses to the love story of others.
As one wise man said, "Life is always more bizarre than **." Such a bizarre incident happened to a woman, making the woman change from the protagonist to the matchmaker on the blind date stage.
I remember that it was a sunny afternoon, and the woman and her blind date met in a small restaurant. In order to ease the tension, the woman deliberately brought her friend Xiaoli. Xiaoli is a lively and cheerful girl who always brings joy to people. The woman thought that with her presence, the atmosphere would definitely not be too awkward.
However, things turned out to be unexpected. The blind date is a polite boy, but throughout the blind date, his eyes seem to stay more on Xiaoli.
The woman tried to find something to talk to, but his answers were always short and perfunctory. On the other hand, Xiaoli chatted with him hotly, and the two talked about ** from movies, and then from tourism to food, as if there were endless words.
The woman sat on the sidelines, feeling like a superfluous person. I couldn't help but feel a trace of bitterness in my heart: Am I so unattractive?
finally survived until the end of the blind date, and the woman was about to get up and leave, but the blind date suddenly came out: "Can I add your friend's WeChat?" The woman was stunned, looked at Xiaoli awkwardly, and saw her nod shyly.
In this way, the woman's blind date ended in failure, but it unexpectedly contributed to a marriage between Xiaoli and the blind date. Looking at the backs of the two of them drifting apart, the woman could only smile helplessly.
Later, the woman reflected on the experience of this blind date. Maybe the problem is not entirely in the act of taking friends on a blind date, but more likely to be the lack of sufficient attraction and tacit understanding between yourself and the blind date.
But it is undeniable that the existence of friends does affect the process and outcome of the blind date to a certain extent.
Since then, women no longer dare to bring their friends on blind dates. Women are beginning to learn to face such situations alone, although they still feel nervous and embarrassed at times, but at least they can focus more on communicating with their blind dates and show their personality and charm more realistically.
However, life is always full of drama. Just when the woman thought that she was used to going on a blind date alone, another embarrassing blind date experience made the woman completely give up this way of making friends.
It was a weekend evening, and the woman went on a blind date with a boy at the request of her family. This time she didn't bring friends, but the result of the blind date was even more unexpected.
When the boy saw the woman, he didn't seem to be much interested, but kept his head down and played with his phone. The woman tried to find something to talk to him, but he always ignored him.
Just when the woman was feeling extremely embarrassed and frustrated, the boy suddenly raised his head and said, "Actually, I'm more interested in your friend. The woman was stunned, unable to react for a while. The boy explained: "I saw a picture of you with a girl in your circle of friends, and I thought she was cute. ”
The woman suddenly realized that the boy was not interested in herself, but in her friend. This made the woman cry and laugh, and at the same time, it also made the woman completely lose confidence in the blind date.
After these two embarrassing blind date experiences, the woman deeply realized a truth: whether to bring friends or not is not the key when going on a blind date, the key is whether she is confident and attractive enough to attract the other party.
If you lack confidence in yourself, then even if you bring a friend to strengthen your courage, you are likely to behave abnormally due to excessive nervousness; On the other hand, if you are confident and charismatic enough, you will be able to show your style and attractiveness even if you are alone with your blind date.
Finally, I would like to tell all my friends who are going on a blind date or will be: don't rely too much on friends to improve your attractiveness, and believe that you have enough charm and ability to attract the right person.
At the same time, you must also learn to maintain a true and natural state in the blind date, and do not deliberately show or hide yourself. Only then will you be able to find the one who is truly right for you.
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