The Chinese New Year was originally a day of joy and reunion for every family, but a family dispute ** let us see the undercurrent in the family. In this **, the cause of the conflict was the unfair treatment of the two sons-in-law by the father-in-law, which eventually led to a family war, and the death hand between the closest relatives was unexpected, which made people sigh.
It turned out that the two sons-in-law went home for the New Year, and out of kindness and increased goodwill, the eldest son-in-law made a large table of dishes for the family to eat. But what I didn't expect was that when the dishes were ready to be eaten, the old man said: There is no eggplant that the second son-in-law likes to eat, so let the eldest son-in-law go out to buy it and eat it. This suppressed all the anger in his heart, so there was a scene on the Internet, and the family fought.
In this incident, the partiality of the father-in-law and the behavior of looking down on the eldest son-in-law became the fuse of the contradiction. As an elder, he not only failed to maintain family harmony, but instead exacerbated the conflict. Elders should play a role in resolving conflicts and maintaining peace in the family, but the old man's behavior is the opposite. He dislikes the poor and loves the rich, a bowl of water is uneven, and his attitude towards the two sons-in-law is completely different, which undoubtedly lays the groundwork for the dissatisfaction in the eldest son-in-law's heart.
Faced with such unfair treatment, the eldest son-in-law chose to express his dissatisfaction by flipping the table and fighting. Although such behavior is a bit excessive, we should also understand the anger and grievances in his heart. When the father-in-law openly bullies the eldest son-in-law, communication has become meaningless. Such behavior is not only bullying, but also trampling on the personality of the eldest son-in-law. Put yourself in your shoes, if we are the eldest son-in-law, how should we deal with ourselves in the face of such treatment?
For the injured and wronged eldest son-in-law, we should give support and encouragement. In the face of such unfair treatment, he can choose to respond in a humorous way, such as saying with a smile: "Dad, you know that he loves eggplant, why don't you say it when I cook?" Now that the food is ready, you just said in front of him that you have to make him eggplant, do you really want to give him food, or do you just want to pat yourself on the back? Whether you are sincere or fake, I won't serve you! I made the dish, so I took it away! Such a response is both an expression of one's own dissatisfaction and a sense of grace and humor. At the same time, we should also tell the eldest son-in-law that it is not worth making an ugly fuss about such a trivial matter, and we should not let the conflict escalate to the point where it cannot be managed.
This incident makes us think about the importance of family relationships and fair treatment. In the family, elders should uphold fairness and respect for each member, rather than taking sides. Only in this way can families live in harmony and avoid unnecessary conflicts and injuries. As family members, we should also learn to cherish our relationships with each other and understand and respect each other. When encountering contradictions and injustices, we should communicate calmly and put ourselves in the shoes of the problem, rather than using violence and conflict to solve the problem.
Finally, we would like to call for peace and understanding. Family is a warm harbor and a place for our souls. In this harbor, we should learn to be tolerant and understanding, and let love and understanding become the norms for us to get along. Only in this way can we work together to create a harmonious and happy family atmosphere, so that the relationship between family members is closer and more harmonious. Let's work together to cherish family relationships and make love and understanding the most beautiful scenery in our family life.