Self-discipline is really inseparable from the companionship and guidance of parents! Witnessing the unhurried attitude of the children towards their own affairs, we naturally take a prohibitive approach to help them, but the results are not satisfactory. For example, in school, children are often unable to pay full attention to lectures and complete homework carefully; Especially the seemingly ordinary little thing of getting up in the morning can hardly be completed on time without a reminder from a parent. In the face of these difficulties, we only need to master the following 5 steps, which are simple and easy, and it will not take too long, that is, less than a week, and you will be able to clearly feel the progress of your children.
First, we will work with your child to create a detailed list of tasks that cover all aspects of learning and daily life. The task must be clear and feasible, not only in terms of time requirements such as reading for one hour; There should also be a provision for memorizing ten words of this amount; More attention should be paid to cultivating high-quality requirements such as ensuring that the accuracy rate of calculation questions reaches 95%; Also, don't forget to set up a motivating wish list for your child – complete a certain number of tasks and hopefully get rewarded. Only when goals are established can children be more proactive in their learning.
Secondly, we should encourage children to make a detailed study plan and arrange the order of tasks. The core is to give children control over their learning progress, and then to be able to realize that learning is a personal thing. Important details include when to start studying, what you need to learn, whether you need to take a short break in between, and whether you can eat some fruit or go to the toilet during the break. In this way, children will feel empowered and more aware that learning is their duty.
Third, as parents, we also need to develop our own learning plans and demonstrate to our children that they are high-quality, efficient, and rigorous. In this way, children are able to feel an atmosphere of justice and equality – they have both rights and responsibilities. This will help us to lead by example and set a good example for our children.
Next, it is particularly important to carry out regular reviews and summaries. Each plan must be supplemented by a clear summary in order to promote the child's increasing self-discipline. Specifically, by comparing the deviation of the planned plan with the actual completion, we can identify areas for improvement, reduce the frequency of procrastination, and thus improve the efficiency of task completion.
Finally, setting up a reward ladder can undoubtedly inspire a child's inner sense of achievement. When they succeed in completing tasks item by item, a sense of satisfaction and pride wells up in their hearts. Coupled with fixed physical rewards, this will further stimulate children's desire to explore knowledge and make them more dedicated to learning. From this point of view, it is extremely important to nurture children's inner drive, and all the efforts we make are aimed at helping them better face the challenges of the future. Grow