June 14, 2007 was an unusual day for Wang Liang's family in Xiguan Village, Xingtang County, Hebei Province.
At this time, Wang Liang and his mother were standing outside the operating room with tears in their eyes, and the two most important of them were inside, which was really uncomfortable.
His wife Zhang Jianxia volunteered to donate 69% of her liver to save his liver cancer father, Wang Liang was distressed, helpless and grateful. All kinds of emotions are mixed with each other, and they all turn into the apprehension of the moment.
Will they be safe? He and his mother kept praying, but they didn't dare to relax in the slightest, and the intubation made him understand that his wife and father's trip to the ghost gate was too difficult.
couldn't react, Wang Liang's father passed away 3 years later, which made everyone talk about Zhang Jianxia's behavior, she tried her best to dispel public opinion and said that she would never regret it!
Filial piety comes first, but in front of the aging parents, how many people can persevere? The saying that there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time is not without reason.
It's just that some people choose to avoid it, and some people choose to face difficulties, and Zhang Jianxia of Hebei Xingtang is undoubtedly a good example.
In 1981, Zhang Jianxia was born in an ordinary family in Anxiang Township, Xingtang County, Hebei Province, and her parents treated her like a jewel.
As the only child in the family, plus it is a girl, parents are inevitably pampered, but Zhang Jianxia has no arrogant temper at all.
He is very polite to others, never causes trouble, is a little padded jacket in the eyes of his parents, and a good child in the eyes of others.
From childhood to adulthood, Su Jianxia has never let her parents worry about it, they just watched her behind her back, and gradually grew up**.
Watching her graduate from junior high school, watching her go to secondary school in Baoding, and watching her work as an accountant in Shijiazhuang, her parents' eyes were full of relief.
They watched Su Jianxia enter the society, but they didn't say a word about their personal problems, and they were inevitably a little anxious.
However, for Zhang Jianxia, she does not want to compromise, and in the face of her parents' ardent expectations, although she has no choice, she will not compromise.
came and went, Zhang Jianxia's attitude of letting it develop made her parents even more anxious, but fate is like this, no matter how anxious you are, it is useless, and you can't stop what you should come.
In 2003, Zhang Jianxia met Wang Liang through introduction, and the two of them had a good first impression of each other, and both had the intention of continuing to communicate.
As the two continue to get to know each other, they find a lot of common topics, and their feelings for each other are getting better and better.
They quickly confirmed their relationship, and the time between the two always passed quickly, and they had the idea of getting married.
Wang Liang's kindness and sincerity are the points that Zhang Jianxia likes, and Wang Liang did not disappoint her, and truthfully explained the situation in his family before deciding to get married.
Wang Liang's family background is relatively ordinary, there is a younger brother at home, his father has hepatitis B, and he needs to take medicine all year round**, he must return to his hometown Xiguan Village, Xingtang County, Hebei Province to live.
After saying these words, the two were speechless for a while, Zhang Jianxia did not flinch at all, she was willing to put the rest of her life in Wang Liang's hands.
Wang Jianxia gave up her accounting job in Shijiazhuang and followed Wang Liang back to her hometown, which was her own choice and she would not regret it.
Their two-way journey soon came to a good end, and in 2004, they were married in the presence of relatives and friends.
Wang Liang's family was very satisfied with her, treating her as their own daughter, and almost did not let her interfere in the farm work at home.
Zhang Jianxia and Wang Liang run the family's small hotel together, although it is hard to get up early and be greedy for darkness, they feel that such an ordinary person is very happy.
Not long after getting married, Zhang Jianxia became pregnant, and a new life was coming, which made the Wang family very happy, but it didn't last long.
Because Wang Liang's father Wang Zhenlong's condition was more serious and had to be hospitalized**, they went back and forth to major hospitals, hoping that the condition could be effectively controlled.
Zhang Jianxia was pregnant with a child, and she couldn't accompany Wang Liang back and forth, so she could only wait anxiously at home for good news.
It seems logical for liver cirrhosis to deteriorate into liver cancer, but when the news came home, Zhang Jianxia couldn't help but be stunned.
Wang Zhenlong is only in his early fifties, and he still has a long time in the future, will he fall under the ruthlessness of the disease like this?
*The best way to get early liver cancer is to have a liver transplant, either by waiting for ** to be in place, or by living donor.
The best transplant object is relatives, because of the involvement of blood relationship, coupled with the feelings of getting along day and night, it is not impossible for people to donate voluntarily.
Wang Liang and his mother heard that the transplant could save their lives, and they volunteered, Zhang Jianxia looked distressed and helpless, and she couldn't stop her when she was still pregnant.
However, transplantation is not available to everyone, and a lot of preparation work is required in the early stage, depending on whether the applicant is eligible.
Wang Liang and they all did a blood type comparison, and his mother, younger brother and himself were all type A, and none of them were eligible for transplantation.
What makes people call it a coincidence is that Zhang Jianxia's blood type is type O blood, which just matches Wang Zhenlong's, and what is even more surprising is that Wang Zhenlong's test results are really misdiagnosed.
There was a false alarm, but Wang Liang and others still had palpitations, although Wang Zhenlong's condition did not reach the point of early liver cancer, but the condition was still very serious.
Although Wang Zhenlong was misdiagnosed this time, who dares to guarantee that this will not be his future result? Wang Liang's family has a big stone hanging in their hearts.
Zhang Jianxia's childbirth brought joy to the family, and a healthy baby boy was born safely, giving everyone hope for the future.
The new life brought a lot of laughter to this family, which made them temporarily and selectively forget about Wang Zhenlong's illness.
However, what should come will always come, you can't escape this circle, and no one can escape it.
In May 2007, Wang Liang took Wang Zhenlong to the hospital for a routine examination, and the results of the examination made the doctor see that something was wrong, and he was finally diagnosed with early liver cancer.
The stone in the heart of the family fell to the ground, and the pain was silent, and the heavy weight weighed on them to lift their heads, and tears had long filled their eyes.
However, the meaning of relatives is that they can give everything for each other, and none of them give up and run on the road of "saving lives".
Zhang Jianxia heard the news and took her young son to the Chinese People's Liberation Army General Hospital in Beijing to visit Wang Zhenlong.
If you don't do anything, you won't know how many people who share your fate are going through what you're going through, and there are days of waiting in the hospital for beds alone.
There are countless patients waiting for ** in major hospitals, and even the entire floor of some hospitals is waiting in line, and money is not worth mentioning at all in front of life.
In the past few days, Wang Liang was exhausted, and he didn't have time to take care of her and the child, Zhang Jianxia saw it in her eyes and silently made a decision in her heart.
Subsequently, she took her son back to her hometown, handed him over to her parents to take care of, and went to Beijing again without saying anything.
No, don't use me. ”
Zhang Jianxia said this sentence calmly, but Wang Liang, her mother-in-law and a group of doctors were shocked on the spot, which was a result they had not thought about.
Most of the donations are parent-child, husband and wife, the doctor is very surprised, Zhang Jianxia, as a daughter-in-law, said such a sentence.
Wang Liang looked at his wife's determined expression, with his father on one side and his lover on the other, how should he choose?
The mother-in-law looked at Zhang Jianxia with tears in her eyes, but she didn't want her to pay such a price, as long as the operation would have a certain risk, who could guarantee that they would be safe.
They then went to all the hospitals, but there was no result, Wang Zhenlong's condition was imminent, and Zhang Jianxia once again expressed his attitude.
Moreover, she volunteered to transplant 69% of her liver to Wang Zhenlong, which was already on the verge of the highest threshold of transplantation, and the doctor was once again shocked by her courage.
In the end, with no way out, the Wang family reluctantly agreed to Zhang Jianxia's proposal, Wang Liang hugged Zhang Jianxia tightly and couldn't say a word.
With a liver that can be transplanted, the hospital began to prepare for the operation, watching the tiny tube pass from the nose to the stomach, the onlookers can't bear to look directly, and Zhang Jianxia who is in it will not feel good.
This is just a preparation before the operation, Zhang Jianxia is still unaware of the subsequent pain, and has no precautions.
On June 14, 2007, Zhang Jianxia and Wang Zhenlong were both pushed into the operating room, and Wang Liang and his mother were pacing outside.
Nine hours later, Zhang Jianxia was taken back to the ward, and twelve hours later, Wang Zhenlong was admitted to the intensive care unit.
During this period, Wang Liang and his mother did not dare to be distracted for a moment, feeling that the time was long and did not want to come out alone to tell them the sad answer.
All the emotions in their hearts became apprehension, they stood for as long as the operation lasted, and the numbness of the body was far less than the mental torture.
Until the door of the operating room opened, "successful operation" was the most beautiful four words in the world, and they were constantly thanking them mechanically.
This is just the beginning, and the subsequent physical recovery is something that Zhang Jianxia has never experienced and is unbearable, and she bit her lip and did not exhale in pain.
The anesthetic strength of the operation dissipated, Zhang Jianxia's whole body seemed to be crushed and reorganized, and the blood pressure in the body blocked the nerve in the right shoulder, and the pain can be imagined.
Zhang Jianxia's ribs need to be intubated to drain bile effusion, and she can't move, and if she is not careful, the tube will compress the sensitive nerves near the ribs, and it hurts Zhang Jianxia to take a breath, which needs to be divided into three times.
In an even more thrilling time, the diversion tube on Zhang Jianxia's body accidentally fell off, and corrosive bile flowed into Zhang Jianxia's abdominal cavity.
Rinsing with salt water again and again, one in and one out is torture for Zhang Jianxia, and the pain in front of her is still so, and the silent tears she shed at night are unknown.
Zhang Jianxia also wanted to hug Wang Liang and cry and say her sore spots, but looking at his tossing and turning figure and his red eyes after staying up all night, she swallowed all the pain.
Wang Zhenlong's side has already made Wang Liang anxious, Zhang Jianxia is sensible and doesn't want to trouble him anymore, they are husband and wife, and they will inevitably advance and retreat together.
After experiencing the bitterness that is difficult for ordinary people to taste, in order to enjoy the sweetness that is difficult for others to have, Zhang Jianxia soon went home to recuperate.
Zhang Jianxia's parents rushed over when they heard the news, looking at their baby daughter's pale face and weak body, they didn't dare to make too much noise if they wanted to be angry.
It's good that their daughter has become what they are now, how can they not feel distressed, at this time, no matter how much distress and accusations have turned into tears.
Under the careful care of her family, Zhang Jianxia's liver slowly recovered intact, her body gradually improved, and her father-in-law Wang Zhenlong was also discharged home, but he still needs regular reexamination.
The family finally managed to see the moon, and the days were slowly improving, and they worked together to overcome this hurdle.
The Wang family is naturally grateful to Zhang Jianxia, and she has now become Wang Liang's "hero" and the "benefactor" of the Wang family.
However, for Zhang Jianxia, as a member of this family, this is her responsibility, and there is no such thing as a "hero" or "benefactor".
Zhang Jianxia, who has recovered, is still doing her own thing, filial piety to her elders, considerate of her husband, and tidying up housework, she does not have the slightest self-esteem.
What Zhang Jianxia said should be divided, what many people can't do, because it is different from ordinary people, it will naturally attract people's attention.
If a person thinks about a good return before doing a good deed, and his original intention changes, then naturally he cannot be regarded as a good deed.
Zhang Jianxia's liver transplant for Wang Zhenlong quickly spread all over Shili and Eight Villages, as well as her usual behavior of collecting money, filial piety and respect for relatives, people saw it in their eyes and remembered it in their hearts.
In 2008, Zhang Jianxia was elected with a high vote in the selection of the top ten filial sons of the "Touching Xingtang", she is indeed well-deserved, and the locals are convinced.
The Xingtang County Spiritual Civilization Construction Committee awarded her the glorious plaque of "Home of Filial Piety", and then Zhang Jianxia's story was reported by many people.
Good things always need to be promoted, so as to become an example for more people, and Zhang Jianxia at this time represents no longer herself, but a representative of traditional Chinese virtues.
In the same year, Zhang Jianxia was selected as one of the "Top Ten People Who Moved Hebei" and "Top Ten Filial Piety Figures in Hebei".
She insisted that she just did what she had to do, and in the face of many ** interviews, she still said so, which is her honesty and persistence.
Zhang Jianxia has become a public figure to a certain extent, she will go to various places to give speeches, and she will present awards to the new moral model, and she has become a model for everyone to learn.
Director Liu Zequn took her as the prototype and filmed the movie "Daxiao Daughter-in-law", so that her story was understood and praised by more people.
The realistic scenes and stories in the play have touched a large number of audience friends, and sincerity is always the best way to dialogue, and it is also the most tear-jerking.
Just when the family felt that the future was bright, Wang Zhenlong passed away 3 years after the operation because of an old disease**.
Zhang Jianxia and his party were in the ghost gate, but they only got Wang Zhenlong's three years, and as soon as the news spread, everyone couldn't help but sigh at the trick of fate, and they all felt worthless for her.
Zhang Jianxia faced many controversies, saying that she did not regret it at all, did her best, obeyed the destiny of God, she had done everything she could, and if time came back, she would still make the same choice.
In 2009, Zhang Jianxia was elected as a member of the Xingtang County CPPCC, and the local ** knew that their family was riddled with debts and lacked skills, so they arranged her to work in the local Civil Affairs Bureau.
Zhang Jianxia refused again and again, feeling that she couldn't do well, and she was even more afraid of bringing trouble to these people who helped her, but after everyone's persuasion and unanimous agreement, she said that she would definitely work hard.
In the same year, Zhang Jianxia won the title of "The Second National Model of Filial Piety and Affection", and everyone thought she deserved it.
Life is full of countless surprises and accidents, whether good or bad, they are far better than you can imagine, Zhang Jianxia's deeds have affected many people, and more people will be affected in the future.